Hey Abbie - thanks for the reply!

It's not easy for us hey! Who do you tell, who don't you tell, what will they think/do etc because of what has or may happen....I'm heading off to counselling with our IVF provider next Friday so I think I will talk to them about it as well.

I know there are anti discrimination laws and everything - and they are great - but in reality it is very hard to prove if you have been discriminated against (not that in a million years I think my workplace would - they are pretty good).

I think its s all round tonight!