Wow Kate I don't know what type of work you do but I'd be saying the same thing as you if my boss interfered... People have all sorts of personal issues going on, and its not up to your work to sort it out for you. The most caring thing that your boss should be doing is making sure you have enough time out to sort yourself out, and maybe you have access to councilling or similar though work that you can use as well. Sometimes i think work believes they control us!
Hey, don't take on their stress either, its a rocky enough road without well meaning help from your boss to add to how you're feeling. Trust yourself. Big to you tonight, sounds like you need a few drinks to chill out!
I'm struggling a bit myself with whether to tell my immediate boss anything at all about what i'm going through... its not that i don't trust him, more that i'm worried that he will change his attitude towards me when he knows I'm planning a family. Anyone solved that dilemma, would love to hear about it!
Last edited by Abbie; July 25th, 2008 at 10:57 PM.
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