mumof5, it does seem to depend a lot on the clinic. Mine didn't give me the option of putting back more than one, but they also prefer to grow to blastocyst which has a much greater chance of sticking, so it's all about reducing the risks to babies and mother with multiple pregnancies. However, I have had contact with someone from my clinic who managed to get two put back because there were only two that were suitable for transfer, and neither were suitable for freezing.

Other clinics do it differently, and I've spoken to people who used another Sydney clinic who had the option of putting two back right from the start.

It seems to vary a lot - which clinic do you use? Perhaps someone who has also used that clinic will be able to help you.

BW