Rols, I think thats a lot of the problem, we know stuff all about morphology and so on. It is interesting and encouraging to note it can change over time. Our son was conceived with clomid and thats it. Talk about breezy. This time round we did that and persisted at it for long er than needed because I was determined it would work again, it had last time! Then we went onto IUI and after 2 BFN's, decided we were done in. In 6 years, only our sons pregnancy and first 5 months were infertility and AC free. We've just had a 2 year break and now feel ready to go again. Its been a loooong road, but so much of that has been wasted time and poor decisions by professionals and so on with our treatment. That you have a proactive FS who says yes you can wait... but you don't HAVE to, is brilliant. I wish we had had that, rather than one who said "you SHOULD wait... and try x y and z first.." But whats done is done.


Carla, we returned to treatment almost unplanned after a 2 year break that we thought was for good. Had we been sensible we could have saved in that time! We work like Rols, pay as much from savings and such as we can/want, the rest on credit and plan to pay it off before the next stim cycle (if needed!)


Arielle - Congratulations!! How exciting!