Spoons really hope the pain goes away soon, you poor thing its sounds so painful xxx

Ladies I desperately need some advise cause I have absolutely no one to talk to about this. I have the opportunity to have a FET at the very end of December (if I can lose some weight) I would have 1 transferred or should I just wait till after my operation in February and transfer 2 in May? Or I could have 1 transferred in December and if that does not work I could have another transferred in May, I have just always felt transferring 2 is better but in saying that I got a bfn when I did transfer 2. Or I could transfer 2 in December and that will be the end of my ttc. Please Please I really really need some advice on what you all think I'm so utterly confused:-( PLEASE HELP I NEED ADVISE!!!!!