I don't believe it's as easy as saying if you want it enough or believe it hard enough or just stay positive that you will end up with a live child at the end of all this. Does that mean that those who it doesn't happen for didn't want it enough?

I hope and pray that we all get what we want but the horrible reality is that some of us won't, no matter how much we want it. But it won't be because we weren't positive enough or we didn't believe.
To be honest, this is why I hadn't commented before now. With the whole AMH thing, I can't help but feel that time is ticking away and worry that I'll hit menopause before we get our BFP. I can't imagine we'll still be TTC at 45 because I can't imagine I'll have any eggs left by that stage. I don't even know if we'll be able to TTC at 40... I couldn't, with any sincerity, offer the encouragement that was sought when I don't feel that hope myself, so figured it was better to keep my fears to myself and let others provide the needed support.

Sorry to post this and run, but I'm at work and it took a while to find the words to try to say what I meant and (hopefully) not be misinterpreted. I'd hate to upset anyone. I'll check back later today after I get the b/w results from this morning.