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  1. #1
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    Jan 2006
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    LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #10

    Welcome to the new chat thread from those members who are Long-Term TTC after miscarriage or loss.

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    Wishing you all the best.

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    May 2009
    Gold Coast
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    Oooo new thread always a good thing for new BFPs.

    Tasha - You poor thing a broken tooth just when you are trying to save money! Shame the tooth fairy won't bring you a refund! $110 back for the dye test is better than nothing but still not cheap, it's worth doing though just for the peace of mind that everything is clear.

    AFM - Trip to donor daddy's again this arvo, going to see if I can talk him in to doing tomorrow too if he is not working. Very + opk at 6pm last night. Looking forward to catching up with Minnie on friday

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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    Oh I'm jealous you are catching up!! Have fun you two!

    Good luck with donor daddy sunbeam, hope you jump on the bfp train, don't forget to pick me up too.

    tasha, I would go for it before xmas if you can, otherwise January is just a write off with trying ot do anything and its Feb bfore you know it.

    minnie- it as a good night thanks, I had 2 nights in a row of getting home at 1am, wow I am waaay too old for that!

    afm- waiting for FET Tuesday, not really thinking about it with the xmas rush, but dreading having my Af over xmas. xxxx

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    Just subbing Back later....

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    May 2009
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    Hi lovelies,

    Bit of a grumble this morning. Donor daddy text to say he could not do another go which I was fine with but what S%$t me was that he wrote "can't sample today have made other arrangements". Seriously, am I interrupting his social life that much? Could he not have just put sorry I got called into work or sorry I'm really not up to doing it again today. I don't know maybe I'm being over sensitive but it just upset me and made me feel like this is all a bit of an inconvenience for him and its not the first time I've got that impression. Men!!! Is it any wonder that I'm gay!?!?!

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    Jul 2010
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    Sunbeam, that sounds like my DH sometimes Hopefully you don't need the extra sample. If you don't mind me asking, what is your arrangement with donor daddy?

    Saffy, I will book the dye test in for next week. Your right, I really want to get a head start before January. Good luck for tomorrow


    AFM: Well AF came this morning, just in time for my work break-up. Funny I have no cramps at all, and no spotting beforehand. This is the first cycle in a few years that I have had no spotting. So I suppose it's a good sign.

    How is everyone else?

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    Oct 2006
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    Tasha ouch but yay for clear tubes
    Saffy test!!!!!!! I am bursting I have such good vibes for this cycle for you!
    Damn Internet cheapy opks have gone AWOL!! I should be peeing on things but have nothing!! Fingers crossed they come tomorrow although it's getting a bit late for them to be useful now.

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    Oct 2006
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    Morning everyone just popping in for a bit of a stalk
    Saffy?

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    May 2009
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    Sill a BFN for me. Saffy?

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    Oops! Just looked at my chart again! Think I miscalculated and I might sill only be 10dpo today!

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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    for me on poas devastated to say the least.

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    Oct 2009
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    Saffy: oh Hun does that mean you are out for sure ?

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    Oct 2006
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    hugs and fingers crossed for double lines tomorrow x

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    Oct 2006
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    Saffy honey I am sorry. I agree with mini x

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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    I know what you're saying, I'm just sick of feeling sorry for myself. thanks chicks xx

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    Oct 2006
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    Can related totally. Sucks balls

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    Dec 2011
    Perth
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    Hi all,
    Sorry to all those who just got BFNs - it's torture!
    I'm new here and hope you don't mind me jumping in - am I doing this right? I've been TTC #1 for 2 years now

    For some reason I took the last BFN really really hard. The girl at work who got pregnant her 1st month of trying and is complaining about every aspect of her pregnancy probably didn’t help! I’ve been getting teary at everything and have felt so lonely! I have to admit I’ve been stalking this forum a bit and I think it’s really helped. Made me cry, but helped. So THANK YOU! Although I wouldn’t wish this torture on anyone, it was comforting to see that every feeling, challenge and loss of sanity I’ve experienced throughout this process, someone else has felt too... and understands.

    Fingers crossed 2012 will be the year for all of you. I’d love to share your ups and downs and hear all the yukky details (all the fun procedures that have become standard for us but gross our “normal” friends out!! Ha ha). I’m scheduled for my second IUI between xmas and new year as long as my body behaves and doesn’t ovulate on a public holiday!

    Bring on the New Year and bring on the baby luck!

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    May 2009
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    Hello Mich8 and welcome to our little thread I hope you will find the support you need here. Yes we will make you cry but hopefully we can help you to laugh sometime too. It is a horrible hard journey and it has helped me beyond words to have these amazing women to turn to.

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