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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #10

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    LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #10

    Welcome to the new chat thread from those members who are Long-Term TTC after miscarriage or loss.

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    Oooo new thread always a good thing for new BFPs.

    Tasha - You poor thing a broken tooth just when you are trying to save money! Shame the tooth fairy won't bring you a refund! $110 back for the dye test is better than nothing but still not cheap, it's worth doing though just for the peace of mind that everything is clear.

    AFM - Trip to donor daddy's again this arvo, going to see if I can talk him in to doing tomorrow too if he is not working. Very + opk at 6pm last night. Looking forward to catching up with Minnie on friday

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    Oh I'm jealous you are catching up!! Have fun you two!

    Good luck with donor daddy sunbeam, hope you jump on the bfp train, don't forget to pick me up too.

    tasha, I would go for it before xmas if you can, otherwise January is just a write off with trying ot do anything and its Feb bfore you know it.

    minnie- it as a good night thanks, I had 2 nights in a row of getting home at 1am, wow I am waaay too old for that!

    afm- waiting for FET Tuesday, not really thinking about it with the xmas rush, but dreading having my Af over xmas. xxxx

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    Just subbing Back later....

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    Hi lovelies,

    Bit of a grumble this morning. Donor daddy text to say he could not do another go which I was fine with but what S%$t me was that he wrote "can't sample today have made other arrangements". Seriously, am I interrupting his social life that much? Could he not have just put sorry I got called into work or sorry I'm really not up to doing it again today. I don't know maybe I'm being over sensitive but it just upset me and made me feel like this is all a bit of an inconvenience for him and its not the first time I've got that impression. Men!!! Is it any wonder that I'm gay!?!?!

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    Sunbeam, that sounds like my DH sometimes Hopefully you don't need the extra sample. If you don't mind me asking, what is your arrangement with donor daddy?

    Saffy, I will book the dye test in for next week. Your right, I really want to get a head start before January. Good luck for tomorrow


    AFM: Well AF came this morning, just in time for my work break-up. Funny I have no cramps at all, and no spotting beforehand. This is the first cycle in a few years that I have had no spotting. So I suppose it's a good sign.

    How is everyone else?

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    hi everyone-minnie-did you test today???sunbeam-sorry dd couldn't manage another visit...tasha-hope the dye test goes smoothly,i had it about 2 years ago,didn't find it too painful,take a pad some of the dye can leak out a bit after,and i had a bit of bleeding as well,i also took some naprogesic,the ones they recommend for af pain ,before hand,they should tell you all that when you book in anyway...afm-due to test on the weekend

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    hi everyone,

    Sunbeam- clear your inbox toot toot! Donor daddys sound suspiciously like boyfriends/ husbands to me, he probably got lucky lol
    matthewsmum- did you do an FET? Best of luck for testing x
    tasha-good move booking dye test, will you still get in this year?
    afm- transfer tomorrow, dreading it not surviving the thaw or something, lucky last here we go...

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    Best of luck tomorrow Saffy
    Sunbeam I hope the insem yesterday did the trick

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    saffy-thanks,natural cycle for me this time .Hope the thaw ,transfer goes smoothly,is it a early transfer?are you doing the acupuncture before & after?fingers crossed

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    Tasha: sorry about the bfn & af, good plan to get moving on the dye test

    Saffy: fingers crossed for tomorrow, I hope everything goes well. Maybe next time I'm down your way we can meet up :-)

    Matthewsmum: fingers cosset for you for testing, do you have any symptoms ?

    Sunbeam: see ya Friday :-) & don't worry about DD, men can be so fickle !

    Joeve: how r you ?

    Afm: bfn this morning, I'm pretty sure I'm out. The good news is I put my script for progesterone in where sunbeam said to go & I can get them for $162 there, at home it would have been $360
    For those of you who know clairesmummy I am meeting up with her tomorrow, I'm having a meet BB girls week lol

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    Hi Girls,

    Thanks for the support. I'm not really mad that we did not get another go just how flippant he was with his message, never mind.

    Saffy - Crossing everything for a great FET. Mindhugs used her very last snowbud and he's now a healthy 4 month old bubba. What time is the transfer? Thinking of you. Inbox cleared

    Tasha - Sorry AF showed but no spotting is good. I'm glad you are all sorted for your dye test now. What sort of thing did you want to know about my arrangement with donor daddy? I want (and he does to) for him to be a very active part of bub's life not to the point of shared custody but he will be the baby's dad. We have a parenting agreement drawn up which basically states that I will not try to get any financial support from him and how much time he will get with the baby etc. He wants to be there for scans and the birth. It also says what decisions we will make together and which ones are my call.

    Matherw'smum - Best of luck for testing on the weekend babe.

    Maruschke - Good to see you how is everything going?


    AFM - Officially in TWW now and used the new prog for the first time today. They are much smaller (little squares) and even after 1 1/2 hours it had not completely dissolved but I did not stay lying down that whole time either and even though I did stuff like sweep the floor it stayed put. I'm guessing they are more slow release but I recon you could just get up and get on with your day! Nice!

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    sunbeam-great another TWW buddy! Good one about progesterone, are you on twice a day dose?

    transfer is at 1.30, so the whole day is a write off cos its an hour or so drive to the clinic, but at least I get the day off work lol

    matthewsmum- I haven't done acupuncture this cycle 1) cos I am slack and this cycle has really just been an after thought with christmas activities and 2) cos she isn't open Tuesday anyway. Its a day 6 blasty. Crossing my fingers for weekend testing for you, let us know xx

    tasha- no spotting is good, it means your progesterone is a good level x

    minnie- say hi to claresmummy and give her a belly rub!

    I have to start clexane - luckily my bruised belly has cleared up lol!

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    Hi girls

    Saffy, I will call them now actually to book, I forgot it was so close to Christmas! Enjoy your day off

    Minnie, sorry about the bfn . It's great when you get a bargain though, isn't it!?

    Sunbeam, I always wondered what happens with things like that, sounds like you have a fantastic arrangement. Good luck in the TWW FX


    AFM: Had a work cruise last night, it was great to catch up with the girls from work, out of work! Spoilt myself and now I'm a bit hungover I thought AF came yesterday, but it stopped and is coming back today. So I guess there is still spotting, but it was red and not brown like usual. Makes sense because I still haven't had cramps.

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    Just stalking. Saffy are you PUPO? How'd it go?

    Tasha - Good to spoil yourself occasionally.

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    hi girls, PUPO here, great embryo that did all the right things, so I am back on track with my attitude, thinking positive!

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    saffy-great news!!!minnie-say hi to clairesmummy for me too...hi to all

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    Hi All,

    Saffy - I can't believe you are 2 dpt and that makes you half way through your TWW! Wish I was. I hope the Clexane is not too painful. Yes I am on prog 2x a day 400mg each time.

    Here's my letter to Santa

    Dear Santa,

    I have been really mostly good, so for Christmas this year I would like the following,
    A really really big belly
    Sore boobs
    Morning sickness
    Stretch marks
    Kicks in the ribs
    Backache
    Swollen ankles
    Sleepless nights
    Bladder weakness

    And for my birthday a beautiful healthy baby

    Thanks Santa
    Luv KTxxx

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