thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #10

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    sunbeam- she should ring my mum and chat to her, mum has it all worked out for me- next stage when i give up ivf is using donor eggs from my sister apparently!!
    Its annoying but at least they care x

  2. #2
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    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
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    ok sorry I couldn't get into the site to update last night so here is our magic list!
    Let me know if I have it right!
    Last edited by Joeve; January 29th, 2012 at 12:48 PM. : the list

  3. #3
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    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
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    Good job Joeve!

    I feel so *****. Dh and I just had a massive argument over money, again I'm so over it. I'm sitting here crying because I'm so stressed out that this IUI isn't going to work, or it will and then I'll miscarry again. And we cant afford to be doing cycle after cycle of it. And if it doesn't work, IVF is totally off the cards. I'm sick of seeing everyone else playing happy families in their own homes while I sit here broke, childless and renting.

    Sorry for my rant. I will come back tomorrow.

  4. #4
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    Oct 2006
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    Oh Tasha I am sorry the money is hard. I hope he is just having a bad day. The boys definitely have a hard time to I think as they are sometimes a bit helpless in the process. Hope tomorrow is better for you x

  5. #5
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    Oct 2009
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    tasha: it is so unfair that it comes so easy to some and not to others and having the pressure on for it to work is hard to deal with. i started progesterone with my last pregnancy and i really thought that would make the difference but it didn't, its so a difficult journey

    joeve: thanks for doing the list :-)

    sunbeam and saffy: to you must be frustrating to hear your families opinions all the time

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    Edit the list
    Last edited by Joeve; January 30th, 2012 at 12:33 PM. : edit the list

  7. #7
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    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
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    Thankyou ladies

    I am feeling a bit better today. I can't imagine the stress for those of you who have had many losses. Makes me feel like a sook.

    Wow, four of you in the TWW! Praying for some BFP

    Saffy, good luck xx

  8. #8
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    Dec 2011
    Perth
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    Tasha - I'm so so sorry Yes, it's so stressful and so unfair that you have to deal with all the heartache and financial costs of ttc on top of all of life's other problems Cry, scream and let it out. I really hope DH comes around and gets more on board soon. Men take a LONG time to admit that help is needed I hope you have a good friend that can help you get your mind off things tonight. Thinking of you...

    Sunbeam and Saffy - Mothers!!! Five pages! I really hope that works My mother has caught onto things too. She doesn't know we're trying but knows we'll need fertility treatment when we do. She's intent on finding out where my problems came from and is calling all her and dad's rellies asking about their fertility and miscarriages. She's declared it's dad's side that's the problem. That isn't at all useful but gotta laugh!!

    List is great Joeve! I hope the 2ww is treating you kindly... and you Sunbeam and Minnie