oh Kaybee, I'm so sorry
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Hey ladies,
Nice one Sunbeam - I can understand you still not wanting to get too excited, but surely the fact that the doc could see a heartbeat warrants at least a little cheer. Yay!
Ferrals - here's hoping you get a great fertilisation number. Fx
AFM - here's that mc FS told me to expect
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oh Kaybee, I'm so sorry
Things just goes from bad to worse we have 3 of 5 injected fertilised as one was not suitable to be injected with DH sperm so if 1 of the 3 is good for TF monday it will be at 2:45.
Its all down to 3 i am not real optimisticactually i am devastated this cycle is going to be a flop.
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Ferrals, I'm so sorry things haven't gone as well as you would have hoped. It is devastating - we have so many hopes riding on IVF and somehow, having that intervention in a way makes us more confident that things might work, but there are always hurdles to overcome that are difficult to deal with. Just remember it only takes one good embie. I know you have the PGD to consider so the more you have the greater your chances but let's just hope that all three keep growing strong and that the one they transfer will be healthy. Don't give up yet, you're still in with a chance and we're here for you x
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morning everyone ,kaybee-sorry bub didn't defy the odds...sunbeam-hope you managed some sleep last night..saffy-sorry af came,glad your feeling positive about ivf,off to a great start...t-hopes-hope your able to enjoy your holidays...porshe-getting closer each step...mildez-hope dreams are subsiding,they can be frightening,councellor helped me with some i was having...alice-how is your friends recovery going?have you got any dates to start your next ivf cycle?did fs get back to you with the results you were waiting for?..ferrals-i agree with alice ,only takes one.How are you feeling physically?
I am pretty sore and uncomfortable i put on over 2kg since wednesdays trigger and was getting worried but i lost 1kg over night so i know its just fluid retention and it will settle down.
Otherwise i am ok just trying not to be to upset and tell myself i can do another cycle in August and we will do things differently next time.
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Hi Ladies,
Ferrals - I know how hard it is to stay positive on this journey and how hard it is to accept that we have no control at all over its outcome. The girls are right though it only takes on good one. It is so brave of you to be keep looking forward rather than dwelling on the stuff you want to be different. I will keep everything crossed that you little embies get good and strong over the weekend.
Kaybee - I'm so sorry your little bean did not pull through there are no words that will make it feel any better right now but we are all here for you.
AMF - I am trying really hard to put the negative thoughts out of my mind. I have been trying to escape into movies to keep my thoughts distracted. I am still concerned that I have had no hint if ms since wednesday, is that normal for it to come and go?
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I should not have worried, ms returned tonight. The strange things we celebrate here!!
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Hi Ladies
Haha Sunbeam. Yes it's perfectly normal for MS to come and go lol.
Kaybee - That's really upsetting for you. I'm really sorry your little one didn't pull through. I hope your recovery is really quick so you can move forward.
Ferrals - I'm really sorry things aren't looking all that crash hot right now. I really hope you get at least 1 emby to TF. I'm glad your looking at the next cycle positively. It's hard to stay positive and optimistic when it just seems the odds aren't stacked in our favour.
Matthews Mum - We'll we've had our last BCP today. I really hope AF is here by Wednesday. I was supposed to be due for AF on Saturday but I think BCP stopped that from happening. Am I being realistic in hoping for AF on Wednesday? It's starting to creep closer and closer now.
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Porsche I think AF will probably be here by Wednesday for you. Usually unless you have funny cycles AF turns up 2-3days after you stop taking the pill. They didn't give you provera to make it come on a set day? I don't see why you would need it but if AF is normally on time.
Sunbeam thats good the MS is helping with the anxiety now its returned lol
Ferrals I am praying this cycle isn't a flop. You only need one right to get a BF sticky P.
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He started me on BCP because I hadn't O by that time. I was CD35 and that is normally when AF is due. So he said start BCP for 16 days so we can be in total control of this cycle. But according to my temps I did O but anyway we didn't DTD around O anyway so I knew we missed the boat.
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Ferrals, good luck for tomorrow - will be thinking of you.
Porsche, all the best for your cycle starting soon
MatthewsMum, where are you up to with your next cycle? Have the bt results given you any idea of when it might start? I'm seeing my FS on Tuesday so will get the results then. We are hoping to start the BCP in another month so if all goes well the injections will start in August.
Did a really stupid thing tonight - lifted something very heavy (about 35 kilos) without waiting for some help and my back and neck are getting stiffer by the minute. Stupid stupid thing to do - will call the Osteo in the morning and hopefully get her to look at it. Why did I do that???!!
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Porsche I hope AF turns up then when its suppose to. Do you do another cycle on the pill or where to from now?
Alice you lifted that heavy thing as you wanted to get it from A to B then and there lol I hope your neck is getting better. Sounds nasty.
Ferrals good luck with your transfer today. I am praying your 3 little embies are going strong and for a BFP in 2ish weeks.
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LOL Mildez! Yes, I did want to move it from A to B and being the patient woman I am (not) I did it when I wanted to, not when someone might have been able to help! Don't feel too bad this morning, a bit of a stiff neck but hopefully OK. My brother has a bad back and I don't want to have to live like that so I should learn, but I never do!!
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Oh Ferrals FX for your transfer!
Mildez - Once AF comes I'm to ring FS and make an appointment for CD6 so we can start FSH injections.
Thanks ladies i just got a phone call from the scientist to say of our 3 embryos 1 is a clear winner and will be TF today at 2:45 and the other 2 are a little behind we can have one of those TF aswell because they wont be good enough to be frozen but with our risk of a sick baby we will only TF the one good one.
So it turns out i ended up with exactly the same number of embryos at the end of this cycle as i did last cycle so really the less eggs doesnt mean less embryos
I have to wait until i get there to find out what grade it is and how many cells but i hope this is our healthy baby.
Please be a top quality 3 day embie PLEASE! PLEASE! PLEASE!
I am so terrified i feel sick how am i going to get through the next 2 weeks waiting to see if it worked.
Sorry for the me posts i am just freaking out.
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Morning all
FX ferrals that this cycle still gives you at least 1 good emby thats all you need to be in with a chance of a BFP !
Alice I laughed at your post I am sooo like you when I want something doing I want it done now not when someone can help lighten the load lol ! hope your feeling better this morning !
Sunbeam yay for ms returning yep it sure does that to you just when you start to worry it comes back and it does come and go but gets really bad around week 10 for me anyway so get some ginger biscuits in and some pepsi and start nibling away its the only way I could keep anything down !!! and rest is good I found the more I was up and around the worse it got ! ( but with my lot resting was difficult to get for more than an hour at a time so take what you can get ! )
Porche sounds like you are just about to start your journey FX it goes smoothly for you !
Matthewsmum where are you in your cycle are you transfering soon ?
Murraycod if your stalking HI hope your ok miss you babe !
AFM well I am in the TWW so FX I get some good news only 1% chance but still a chance I keep telling myself, and DH well he is so positive one day soon we will get our BFP.
Looks like my house is nearly done will be doing the final inspection next week then get the keys ! ( new house new baby ) oh I hope so !
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Hi girls, hope everyone had a good weekend, I had a busy day at work today.
Ferals- hope that embie is top notch for your TF today, try not to freak out cos there's nothing you can do but sticky vibes to you xxx
Sunbeam- glad you got your ms back, sorry the scan wasn't more ressuring for you but hopefully your symptoms will help you be positive,I'm sure if they saw a heartbear that is the main thing sticky vibes to you too babe xx
Alice-hope the back settles, I always do that at work then regret it, we aill both be stooped over when we are old ladies!
Porsche-hope AF arrives!
Crafty- hope AF doesn't arrive!
Hi Mildez, Matthewsmum, THopes and Kaybee xxx
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