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  1. #1
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    Sunbeam, I understand your anxiety around your symptoms coming and going. I believe it is normal for them to vary like that but I know that you will rest a lot easier once you have had your scan. I hope the time away with your Mum & Dad will help and you can rest up and let yourself be nurtured and surrounded by their love and support. Sending you lots of sticky vibes xx

    HappyBaby - I like your plan with the acupuncture and bding - will be doing something similar myself. I've read that bding after transfer is also good - something about the presence of the sperm on your cervix sending good chemical vibes around but I know IVF always tell you to avoid it because of risk of infection so probably before is better.

    Saffy - I don't blame you for not wanting a creepy dude looking at your bits - I hope the day falls right so you don't have to but if it doesn't well try to keep the bigger picture in mind. My DH is always with me, I feel much more comfortable knowing that he's looking at who's looking IYKWIM so hopefully yours will be there too. Good to hear about your health kick, if only I could get my lazy arse off the chair and do some exercise I'd be feeling a bit better but it's sooo cold that I just can't get out the door! Three weeks and counting!!

    Ferrals - I wouldn't have thought you'd get a line that strong that early in a chemical pg but I understand your anxiety after all that you've been through with Abbi and since then. I know you'd like to have your bt a bit earlier but the longer you wait the more definitive it will be so hang in there - the 2nd of August will be here before you know it. Cramping is good too and glad you won't be suffering with ms. Oh and remember NO INTERNET RESEARCH for you!!! x

    Crafty - it's Friday today (hint hint) how's things??????

    MatthewsMum - how are you feeling today?

    Porsche, Mildez, Sevie, T-hopes - love to you all.

    AFM, off to get a massage tonight - got a gift voucher in January that I am only using now! Can't wait - feeling a bit under the weather (had a friend up here last weekend who coughed and sweated the way through our Christmas lunch and ever since then I've been a bit snotty) so hoping the massage will help. Have a great weekend

  2. #2

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Alice-enjoy the massage i am jealous.

    Crafty-any news? pleassssssssssssssssssssssse let it be a BFP.

    Happybaby-i did not really rest after my TF i did my normal thing the way i see it in a natural pregnancy you dont know you have conceived and still do all the normal things if the embryo is normal and healthy and your lining is good it will stick they say the blood flow to the uterus is important and BDing is good (yeh right) i was still in pain from my EPU and constipated so we did not BD until 2 days after TF which is around the time the embryo would have implanted and the sex was really good so maybe that is why our embryo decided to stick.
    The only thing i did after TF was not have any coffee and no heavy stuff like exercise ect and i drank lost of water.

    Hi to everyone i have missed.

    AFM-i popped into the pregnancy thread and let them know i will be lurking and maybe drop in a little until i get the all clear because the way i see it i have to be positive for this baby and give it all my hope and there would be other women who join the pregnancy threads and m/c and have to leave after posting in those threads so why should i be any different i need to believe this baby is fine and we will get past our cvs with flying colours.

  3. #3
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
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    Saffy I so hear you with the Dr you know. I have had all 5 O&Gs I work with see my vag so shameful. I seriously will consider delivering elsewhere if and when I ever get pregnant only problem the closest place is 200kms away from where we live. I just saw onw yesterday to get the ball rolling. Now just waiting for AF (due in 13days) to start the pill and then once that part is over we start the other stuff. I am abit nervous about not responding well. They said due to our age or my age hopefully that wont be a concern but I am worried. Somehow its costing more then I thought it would and according to there book so don't know if I can afford a 2nd sti, cycle this year after all. I guess FX we don't need that much.

    Ferrals my FR test was 1/2 strength when my HCG was 70 so a dark line should mean its in the hundreds by now which is fabulous. Don't they say they like it about 100 on normal BT day. Your BT seems quite long. I wonder why. I mean there are definate benefits from it but its a wait isn't it?

    Crafty have everything crossed for you.

    Alice enjoy that massage.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Hi Ladies

    Saffy - I'm glad all is on track. Don't worry about the creepy Dr too much. When we get UTD there are so many people coming and going looking at our bits it all becomes second nature. Sad but very true. I do hope that you don't have to see him though for your benifit.

    Alice - Oh I would love a massage. Actually I would love a little ME time.

    Ferrals - I'm so glad your being positive. it is such a worrying time we need to take all the positives we can get.

    Crafty - Any news yet? I have my FX for you.

    Hi to everyone else.

    AFM nothing new. Just waiting until Sunday for our CD6 appointment. Very hopefull we'll start our stabbing then aand really get a move on. AF has been different this time not like normal. I guess it's all the new meds I'm on. Hurry up 5pm!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Hi ladies

    Thanks for asking about me but AF showed her ugly head in the night so my stupid body was playing tricks again ! so glad I didn't bother wasting money on stupid tests. Have to face facts 1 % just isn't enough now is it !

    Keep well enjoy your weekend and forgive me but I am feeling really PI ** ED off atm !

  6. #6

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Crafty- Sorry the B#tch showed her head and of course you are forgiven for being p#ssed off we have all been there so take your time.

    Porsche-exciting fingers crossed you start injections soon.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Oh Crafty. I would be peeved off too.

  8. #8
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
    3,750

    Crafty boo to AF. Hope its the last one for 9months. FX your in that 1%