Sunbeam, I understand your anxiety around your symptoms coming and going. I believe it is normal for them to vary like that but I know that you will rest a lot easier once you have had your scan. I hope the time away with your Mum & Dad will help and you can rest up and let yourself be nurtured and surrounded by their love and support. Sending you lots of sticky vibes xx

HappyBaby - I like your plan with the acupuncture and bding - will be doing something similar myself. I've read that bding after transfer is also good - something about the presence of the sperm on your cervix sending good chemical vibes around but I know IVF always tell you to avoid it because of risk of infection so probably before is better.

Saffy - I don't blame you for not wanting a creepy dude looking at your bits - I hope the day falls right so you don't have to but if it doesn't well try to keep the bigger picture in mind. My DH is always with me, I feel much more comfortable knowing that he's looking at who's looking IYKWIM so hopefully yours will be there too. Good to hear about your health kick, if only I could get my lazy arse off the chair and do some exercise I'd be feeling a bit better but it's sooo cold that I just can't get out the door! Three weeks and counting!!

Ferrals - I wouldn't have thought you'd get a line that strong that early in a chemical pg but I understand your anxiety after all that you've been through with Abbi and since then. I know you'd like to have your bt a bit earlier but the longer you wait the more definitive it will be so hang in there - the 2nd of August will be here before you know it. Cramping is good too and glad you won't be suffering with ms. Oh and remember NO INTERNET RESEARCH for you!!! x

Crafty - it's Friday today (hint hint) how's things??????

MatthewsMum - how are you feeling today?

Porsche, Mildez, Sevie, T-hopes - love to you all.

AFM, off to get a massage tonight - got a gift voucher in January that I am only using now! Can't wait - feeling a bit under the weather (had a friend up here last weekend who coughed and sweated the way through our Christmas lunch and ever since then I've been a bit snotty) so hoping the massage will help. Have a great weekend