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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Hi everyone

    Ferrals so glad the amnio is over with now just relax and wait for the results not too much longer at least you will know for sure either way at long last !!!

    Alice sorry your having a hard time trying to look after children seems really mean to me that they have such rediculous ways of sorting out who can and who can't take on the childrens care !! sometimes this world just insn't fair and I think everyone should be given the same chance !!!!

    Luna so sorry you feel its over for you but maybe just maybe you little one is hanging on ! mc is not always painful but sometimes its worse than being in labour ! I have had it both ways so I know !!!

    AFM well last day of clomid and just waiting to start opks in around 5 days time then DH and me and the pre-seed can get down and see if we can snag that old scrambled eggie I may have produced or 2 I know wishful thinking !! was reading of a same sex couple in a mag that had clomid and IUI with donor sperm and now are expecting quods !!!!!

  2. #2
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    Hi lovelieladies,
    I tried to post before but mum came round midway through, so had to abandon it , lets try again.

    Firstly- no Quads please Craftymummy/nanna, that would be waaay too much lol. Hope you and DH and the preseed and the clomid are getting jiggy with it very soon darl

    Alice-seems crazy doesn't it, I wonder if like India'smum says, you contacted some other places and checked out what they say. Sorry to hear you are fighting with DH, its inevitable I guess, with the raw emotions, so fresh still xx I'm sending a that this little frostybub hangs on there if you are going to try it. I can complately understand that you are sick to death of all the years of meds, surgeries etc, it must just be horrendous and just so, so, so unfair for you both xxxx

    Luna- hope you get an answer very soon, it seems cruel to go on like this xx

    Ferals- amnio results come back nornal, you have been a trooper through this, very strong for your little baby xx

    Possummagic- any AF? Hope not xx

    India'smum- hi, how are you going hun x

    Matthew'smum- hope you are feeling better lovely

    Toomanyshoes- sorry to see you go but i understand you are making the decision you need to and I'm sure your family will appreciate it, thanks for watching over us!

    Sunbeam- hope the cruise is going well!

    Hi everyone else, I know for sure I have missed people so big apologies and babydust all round, stickyvibes to all the escapees stalking!

    AFM- had a great weekend away with DH to the city, so fun and relaxing, then when we got home last night DH even offered to give me a romantic massage! ( this is a minor miracle in itself) Might have to organise a few more surprise weekends for him if that is going to be the outcome lol.
    Anyway, off the BCP, cycle day1 is Thursday, start jabbing on Friday which is great, unfortunately I have nightshift tonight though which isn't so great.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2010
    335

    Ferrals: Hooray! Great news! ANother hurdle down. Hope your cold gets better soon and you are in top shape for good news in three days!

    Alice: It does seem a shame doesn't it? THere are so many children needing care and here they have two lovely people like you and DH willing to offer a home... i guess the wait will give you time to decide what to do about your little frostie and then to shift gears mentally from IVF to fostering.

    Luna: Hope you are holding up ok. Any news?

    Saffy: So glad you enjoyed your weekend. My DH is always saying we don't have enough quality couple time. It would be great to do a romantic weekend. And no, no AF yet but don't get excited: i'm not due before Saturday. I don't feel at all pg. Undergoing horrid outbreak of adolescence (i mean my skin's gone cr*p)! Probably AF on its way... but then my skin was like this in early pg too!

    Craftymummy: OMG quads! Can you imagine?! GL for this month!

    India's mum: HI ; )

  4. #4
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    Crafty, you've given us all heart failure woman, talking like that!! Quads!! LOL well if anyone could handle it, it would be you and your DH. Glad you got your hands on some Clomid and go the preseed! Have fun bding and maybe just catching that egg is OK (no scrambling required!)

    Saffy, a massage! My god, my DH would have to be well happy to do something like that! Sounds like you've hit on a good formula. Win win!! I kept thinking you started on Sunday so it's this week. I got all excited and a bit ahead of myself. Bring on the baby vibes, it's your turn now! x

    Possum, eek about the skin - I get that too so let's hope it's a sign of early pg with you and not She Who Must Not Be Named. Yeah, I think the year off will be OK. Will talk to my acupuncturist/Chinese herb doc today to get her advice about what to do next.

    India's Mum, I will try DOCS (though I'm not keen on the idea) and do a bit of research on other agencies. Barnardos have a really good reputation so if we have to wait then we will. I was just laughing at the lifestyle idea. Hmpff, if you call feeding your chooks and going to be early a lifestyle then I guess I have a great one! Where are you up to at the moment? I got sidetracked and can't remember?

    Ferrals, well that's one sleep down, two more to go. See, you're one third of the way there already. How are you today? What are you up to?

    Sunbeam, are you traveling the high seas yet or sorting out things at home? Are you OK about being there on your own for a while? I'm really sorry your flatmate did that to you. Been thinking of you. Hope this time out is helping you decide what to do next x

    hello to all our other lovely women, hope all is well with you x

    AFM well I'm slowly feeling better though the two times I ventured out of the house since last week have ended in floods of tears. Who'd have thought going to my local market could be so upsetting!? I've been hiding out at home but today I'm going to Sydney to see my acupuncturist/Chinese medicine doc to let her know about the cycle and to talk about what's next so hope that goes OK. My good friend is home from OS with my god daughter so going to drop in on them if I feel up to it and see my little godson at the same time. They are great kids and always make me laugh so that's probably what I need a good dose of silliness from them and a hug from her. It really is one step at a time and slowly the bits of your life fall back into place again and for that I'm truly grateful! xx

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Good Morning All- Hope everyone in here is fine and dandy on this lovely Tuesday morning. We had a great time away over the week end but it seems I have picked up the flue while Ive been away, the last 2 days my joints have been a bit achey and today I have a snuffley nose. Still have tender achey BBs and STILL NO AF.

  6. #6
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    Aug 2009
    Western Australia, SOR
    1,152

    Just dropping in to drop off some baby dust and sticky vibes

    I'm not UTD but I am enjoying life. Things with DP are going fantastic. I have taken up drinking though... only socially. I am moving house ASAP and then maybe I will be truely happy

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    PA
    125

    Clairesmummy - have you tested? How many days late are you? The symptoms sound very promising.

    damprye - glad to hear that things are looking up for you. Ocasional social driking can be very entertaining...

    Craftymummy - I am excited for you for the clomid round, I heard it can do wonders!

    ferrals - almost there, glad to hear that things are looking good so far.

    Saffy, India's Mum, possum, Alice - hello ladies, I am thinking of you all.

    I have a scan booked for tomorrow, finally maybe they will look at me and tell me what is going on. The BT was up again, but only to 680, which is definetly not right for 7th week.