LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #5

[Porsche]

Hi Ladies

Saffy - Congratulations on 6 embies! I hope the *one* is in that bunch for you.

Sunbeam - I'm so glad you have a very relaxing holiday. You'll be ready and raring to go. I hope you get your back sorted out soon. Good luck with the acu.

Alice - I really hope you frosty is your lucky number. Are you planing on TF'ing soon?

Matthewsmum - I'm glad to see your name pop back up. Hope all is on track and well.

Possum - I would DTD for the next couple of days just to cover all your bases. Good luck FX.

[Matthew's Mum]

hi everyone ,porshe-nice to see your name too,hope all is well with you & bub...possummagic-doesn't hurt to throw one more in.At least tww at the end of the year,we've got chrissy shopping to help distract us.

[India's Mum]

Sunbeam - does your back require surgery? You need to have a good talk with the specialist about what a pregnancy would do to your current situation because it really is hard on your back. It won't be good for the long term if you have a baby but you can't enjoy doing the normal things like giving them a bath because you can hardly move. Good luck sweetie, I hope your problems are resolved soon.

[Sunbeam]

Hi Everyone,

Thanks for the advice and encouragement. I am super excited as I have made it through the day on just panadol . I am really hoping that this continues and it keeps getting better. I do think in the long run I may need an op and I know pg will probably not help it but if I can worry about getting it fixed after my bub arrives then that suits me fine

Saffy - I hope your embies are coming along well and they are nice and strong for saturday's TF.

Alice - How's the rat bite doing?

Possum - I hope your eggie is dividing happily Happy TWW.

Luna - Thanks for the warning. I hope having a possible reason make the situation a tiny bit easier to understand

[Saffy]

hi girls-

sunbeam-good news about the panadol, might be coming better just in time!

Matthewsmum- how is your tww going? Good idea about the xmas shopping, I will definately do that as a distraction technique during tww!

Porshce- niceto see you! Hope everything ticking along nicely for you

Possummagic- great that you are entering the tww- good luck for a nice bfp fx

Luna- how are you going hun?

Toomanyshoes- yeah I wouldn't want to take painkillers every day either, you've probably go a high painthreshhold though now.

Alice- are you back from sydney yet? Hope you had a good time

Hi India'smum, claresmummy ( when is your appt?), THopes ( hows it going??xx), 1+2=3, anyone else!

AFM- well have transfer tomorrow at 11.30, acupuncture pre and post, then bedrest on acupuncturist orders for 2 days, have worded DH up that he will be waiting on me hand and foot ( Ha!) we'll see, my sister is staying here Sat night so she will most likely carry the burden. I started Crinone last night,wish I hadn't looked at the list of sideeffects tho!!

[Matthew's Mum]

moning all ,sunbeam-good news about the panadol,hope it continues...saffy-wishing you lots of sticky vibes....alice-thanks again for the info on those courses,How has your day going been going...afm-testing tomorrow as acupuncturist wants to know result before session with her,she said if it is bfn,she'll do a more aggressive session & start herbs what are known to flush out tubes...

[craftymummy9]

glad everyone is ok, glad your back seems to be on the mend sunbeam hopefully you can get another transf before christmas ready for a nice BFP, Matthews mum FX for your BFP in the morning what day past ovulation are you ? Alice hope you had a nice time away and are coming home refreshed ! Saffy enjoy you 2 day rest and think happy thoughts of your emby nestling in all weekend the power of the mind is a wonderful thing, Porsche nice to know your still popping in now and then hope your doing ok ! Ferrals if your stalking hope your enjoying the pg now miss you loads ! everyone else I forgot sorry !

AFM well 9 DPO and doing ok I guess not moody yet so thats a plus for DH lol, BBs bit tender could go either way just wondering when I should test as I hate this guessing game but at the same time hate just seeing 1 line would rather AF turn up than see 1 line ! anyhow will just keep myself busy knitting sewing and looking after my brood after all this time next week I will know Hey !!!

[Sunbeam]

Just leaving work and wanted to say good luck tomorrow Saffy. I hope the TF goes brilliantly and that you are then treated like a princess by your DH and sister for the rest of the weekend.

[Alice]

Good luck tomorrow Saffy - I hope your embies are looking great and are ready to spend 9 months with you. Fingers crossed all goes well.xx

Hi Crafty, Sunbeam, India's Mum and everyone else. Back tomorrow x

[Saffy]

Thanks girls, I'll let you know how I go! saffy x

[Matthew's Mum]

hi everyone,saffy-thinking of you & your little embies...craftymummy-got my fingers crossed for you...afm-no surprise really,1 line for me today,acupuncturist has put me on some tablets after getting results from blood tests.I have to take 36 tablets a day,bt's showed i am extremely low in iron,zinc & vit d.High copper levels & my progesterone/estrogen is out of balance should be 1:6 mine is 1:28

[Alice]

Saffy, hope you are resting up, queen-like, with DH waiting on your every wish! Can't wait to hear how you went, crossing everything for you x

MatthewsMum, I'm sorry you got a BFN this morning It's really good that you have had these tests done and that you now have something to work with that is tangible, not just this uncertainty of why and not knowing. My prog/oest is also out of whack, especially after my IVF cycle seems like my body has gone hay wire, so know what that is like. I hope things improve for you quickly and your BFP is close. Would be wonderful news indeed to see your name in a BFP post. Like I said, I want everyone in one place so I can visit you all easily

Porsche, lovely to see your name! Hope all is well with you and bub.

Hi to everyone else - hope you're all having a good weekend. It's wet (again) so inside mooching around not doing much but eating LOL.

[possum magic]

Saffy: hope the transfer went well today and you are resting up being waited on hand and foot!
Mathewsmum: Sorry for BFN. I hope that your accupuncturist can help you with tablets and other things: you are working so hard to get your body ready for a baby I hope that you will get your BFP very soon.
Alice: Hope you are having a good weekend of mooching and eating! We've had friends over and a yummy vegie lasagna for lunch so lots of eating but not much mooching; it's been hectic!
Porsche: Hope you and your bub are well.
Sunbeam: Exciting that you are managing on panadol. Hopefully you're on your way to being better.
Craftymummy: definitely a bonus when we don't feel moody isn't it? You're nearly at the end of the TWW. Hope AF stays away.
India's mum: Hi, hope you're feeling a bit better this weekend.
Hello everyone else i missed (not going back past this page)
AFM: 2ww is dragging already and i'm only about 3dpo! I feel like it hasn't worked but of course i couldn't possible have symptoms yet even if it had worked! Aargh! just need to be patient.

[Saffy]

hi girls,

transfer went really well yesterday -besides the fact I discovered the night before at work that the Dr I work with who I DIDN'T want seeing me in my glory was the one doing the transfer , but he was fine and very reassuring. It's so great seeing the embies travelling up the catheter, now I hope they stay put!

The resting is doing my head in a bit as I am someone who always has to do a number of things at once and can't sit still for long periods, but I am watching The Tudors on dvd which is keeping me entertained.

I was very confident going in to this and now am full of doubt about it working, I know i have to think positively but struggling to work out how???

Back later for persies, to everyone

[T-hopes]

Saffy - so excited to read about your little embies and your transfer!!! Good luck in your TWW, praying that your bfp is just a few weeks away... xx

Hi to all my special friends.... always thinking of you, special love xx

[craftymummy9]

Hi all

Just a quickie as I am trying to get on with life after my poas this morning on 12 DPO a BFN of course so no surprise there then I guess I was expecting it afer 14 mnths of BFNs it kind of gets to be the normal thing to see so I am just deciding whether to try clomid a few more months as I am going it alone and know i am taking a risk but I am getting so desperate now and with no Drs willing to help a 45yr old with kids already I guess you do what you have to do right ?

will pop back later when I feel more up to it !! F**K I am so P*ss*d off now !

[toomanyshoes]

Saffy - great to hear the transfer went well! Sending lots of sticky vibes your way and keeping everything crossed.

crafty - sorry to about the BFN they suck @ss don't they? Be careful with clomid if you continue with it, I understand all too well wanting to do everything and anything to get my BFP but just be careful!

Hope everyone else is well as for me I have had on going MASSIVE head aches....someone shoot me please!!!!

[Alice]

Saffy, that's the hardest part of the TWW, balancing your hope with your fear and trying to stay positive. I think distraction is what you need - dvd fest or something. Or a triology of books to read? Fingers crossed it is all going well for you x

Toomanyshoes, agh yuck headaches, sorry you have a bad one. My friend gets them so I know how awful they can be. Rest up.

Crafty, I don't know what to say - I don't think you should take drugs without an FS and I'm sorry you can't get one to help you. Sorry you got another BFN. Did you ever try Vitex? At least you can get that from a health food store.

Hi to everyone else - sorry for no more persies - got a headache from reading my bookclub book in one sitting! I need to get back to work... x