matthewsmum: how rude of her ! did you say i'll be ready to give up when you learn to keep your opinions to yourself (cause i doubt that will happen with her for a long time), you are right thought most people don't understand !
ok so i have more questions for you, so are they looking for your estrogen to get to a certain level (obviously) because that means you have a follicle getting ready ?

saffy: i take it you are on progesterone support from ovulation ? or from transfer i guess ? what more can you do to boost your levels ? take vitex ? the specialist im seeing next month does a lot more monitoring of the cycle than mine so im keen to get to see them and see what they say (that and the fact a friend of mine works there at the ivf clinic so i know she will look after me well)

crafty: thanks for your thoughts.....i think i will still go back under here though lol