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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #8

  1. #73
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    Oct 2009
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    clairesmummy: congrats hun, so happy for you !

    these things come in 3's girls, who is next ?


    thanks craftymum & Luna :-)

    sunbeam: sounds like a good back up plan you have, i hope you get to do vietnam eventually, in a few years with a child in your backpack

    saffy: hope you are going ok, what happened with your cat ? hope work is ok now ?

    loops: any updates from you ?

    afm: going ok, boobs really sore, had bad stretching pain and backache last night, was pretty stressed about it, i hope it is ok, im going for more blood tests today.
    i guess i need to move on from this thread now........i know it is hard to hear about pregnancy stuff and i don't want to be upsetting you girls.
    of course im happy to be pregnant but im so sad to be leaving you girls and i wish you all good luck and i hope you all get your dearest wish and soon ! lets all crash the pregnancy after miscarriage thread ok ? i'll be stalking you all xo

  2. #74
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    Clairemummy yippee babe so excited! Take a deep breath and try to relax

  3. #75
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    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
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    Thank you Minnie and Joeve.
    How are you going Joeve? Haven't heard from you in awhile darl, are you still riding your horses? Hope all is well with you darl, you are always in my thoughts. xox.

  4. #76
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    Sep 2009
    WA
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    Congrats clairesmummy thats 2 this month already BFPs I mean we have to have a 3rd wonder who will be the Lucky lady !!!!

  5. #77
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    Dec 2008
    Leongatha - South Gippsland, Victoria
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    Clairesmummy ~ so All the best for the next 9months!! He/she will be a very sticky one - stay pos!!

    Minnie ~ you must have missed my post - BFN for me. Feeling pretty low and at the moment but it'll pass. Will miss you in here - all the best hun. Please drop in from time to time and let us know how you are going xo

  6. #78
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    Apr 2007
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    Claire'sMummy - So thrilled for you!! Will you start the baby aspirin today?

  7. #79
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    Sep 2009
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    clairesmummy-congratulations!!!!saffy-fingers crossed for saturday...loops-sorry it was a 1 liner...minniemouse-all the best!!thinking of you all

  8. #80
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    Apr 2010
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    Claresmummy- great news!! I am sending you my stickiest for the stickiest baby ever xxx

    minnie- sad to see you go please keep stalking us but you are DEFINATELY UTD so you need to relax as much as possible, all sounding so positive babe, I'm sure all will be good for this one, and in 9 months you will be cuddling your new baby xxxx

    craftmummy- i hadthe same problems with vitex ( within a few days of taking it) my mental state doesn't need another excuse to drop its bundle, so no vitex for me either. Hope you lay an egg soon xxx

    sunbeam- I am not far behind you in turning 40, we still look like spring chickens don't worry, crafty is testament to getting bfps after 40! Glad you have plan B but hoping you get a nice sticky one without the expensive clinics, I'm sure you will. Glad you are feeling ok xxxx

    Loops- sorry ot hear about the bfn, hope AF comes soon so you can get going with your upcoming ivf cycle, I wish we all could afford to do as many cycles as we need but alas, they love ripping us off. xx

    mathewsmum- good to see you still hanging around, hope theres a cycle for you soon too xx

    nothing to report from me, just very emotional and stressed about every little thing at the moment, can't wait until saturday, although our foxtel remote just broke and DH is away- I can't do a TWW without foxtel!!!!

  9. #81
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    Dec 2008
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    cant afford IVF next month feeling pretty gutted right now.

  10. #82
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    Apr 2010
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    oh noooo, that is sh*t loops, I hate how much it costs, I really wish this wasn't an issue for you both hun xxxxxx

  11. #83
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    May 2009
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    Clairesmummy - Whoo, congratulations sweetie. How many test did you buy? When will you get a bt? I hope it is a beautiful sticky bub for you.

    Come on girls lets keep the BFPs going.

    Loops - Sorry IVF is so expensive. You've shown you can do it naturally I hope you can manage it again and you can save your money.

    Saffy - Try to chill babe I know its hard, can you do yoga or meditation or anything to de-stress? Foxtel definitely essential

    AFM - I am feeling so happy and settled with my plan B and the fact that I have an end date to TTC if its not going to work out. If i can't have one baby I will have heaps I'm feeling good back on my chinese herbs.

  12. #84
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    Jul 2011
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    Hi Ladies,
    Sorry I have been away for a bit. Have had a lot going on as per usual. Can't believe how much can happen within a week!
    CONGRATULATIONS to Clairesmummy on her BFP! Sending you sticky vibes & lots of positive thoughts! Seems like even the in-laws couldn't keep it from happening!

    Saffy-Thanks for always asking how I am. Try & keep your chin up & definitely do what you can to de-stress! Easier said thean done I know! Get some hunky Foxtel dude out to fix that remote ASAP. No use adding to the stress!

    Sunbeam-Hope all goes well with your new cycle. Glad to read you are feeling better. Hopefully that will relieve the stress a bit & let some good things happen!!!

    Loops12-So sorry the cost of IVF is holding you back! I don't know much about it cost wise but hopefully some kind of good luck comes your way. Just keep saving & keep trying. Thinking of you...

    minnimouse-Hope everything is still going well & that you are enjoying (when you are not stressing!) this time! Good luck on the new thread!

    AFM-WELL, last week, after almost a year and a half of trying, we got our BFP at exactly 4 wks!!! Today I am 5 wks & freaking out totally! Got my levels tested on Tues: HCG 354 & Progesterone 52. Have no idea is these numbers are any good or not. My FS assured me they are so trying to relax a bit. This morning tho had some browish discharge (very slight) just like I get at the start of my period so of course I'm back to stressing & punching my boobs to see if they still hurt lol.
    Sorry for blurting everything out, but you know what? Haven't told anyone really yet & after miscarriage you freak about everything. And I thought, who better to talk with than you guys that have been through it too?
    Fingers crossed this is a sticky bean & fingers crossed that everyone on here gets their much deserved BFP's soon! xxx

  13. #85
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    Dec 2008
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    Thanks ladies for all your care and support, means the world to me xoxo

    I guess if we can't scrape the money up (highly doubtful) I just have to hope and it happens naturally again.
    Saffy ~ I am also now on chinese herbs and DH from my accupuncturist so hopefully that helps too. GL with yours'.

    ladies - hope there are more BFP's in here very soon!!

  14. #86
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
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    Thank you all for your lovely words, I am not holding onto hope just yet I am way to petrified. I have just made my first GP appointment it's next Thursday at 9am. We have to travel 1.5hours to the DR but DF and I both agree if we travel the extra half hour to a good GP it will be worth it. If I see a GP here where we live you can be transefered any where if something should go wrong and if we travel to my old GP from 5 years ago we have everything we need in the one place. The worst that can happen is I get sent to Nambour or Brisbane from there.
    Thank you all for the sticky vibes I am praying they work. I will POAS again in the morning to confirm my result from yesterday as it was very very faint and just visible. AF is meant to arrive tomorrow as well, here's hoping she is a no show for me for the next 8+ months pretty pretty please.

    Thanks Loops~ Sorry to hear the IVF is so expensive darl hope you are feeling better soon or maybe you will have a natural wonder coming your way darl. FX for you and big hugs as well. xox

    Indias Mum ~ No Aspirin, I am currently only taking my Folate tablets, I am praying I don;t need them. At my last OB appointment he checked all my BT results and said I don't need the Aspirin as I have a wonderful blood count and no sign at all for clotting disorders, I didn't even know they had checked for clotting disorders.

    Saffy~ Bum about the foxtel remote darl not good at all, I am praying that everything goes great for you on Saturday and I will be thinking of you, good luck and maybe you can get a big long stick to change those channels while you are resting until you get another one or the old one is fixed,

    Sunbeam~ Great that you are feeling settled with your decision darl, but I am hoping your egg and DD super sperm have you riding that BFP train sooner than you can say Veitnam darl. Good luck this cycle.

    Crafty~ You are dead on the money in saying it comes in 3s darl, wishing you all the very best in catching your egg this cycle darl, Good luck and hope you have a super egg and DHs swimmers are running on nitro to get the job done for you. Hugs to you darl.

    Hope you ladies don't mind me hanging around in here until I have everything confirmed by my GP pretty please? Take care everybody and I am stalking you all.

  15. #87
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    Dec 2008
    Leongatha - South Gippsland, Victoria
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    Thanks Clairsmummy - really appreciate your support!
    Certainly would love to have you stay around and will have everything crossed for you!!!

    Can anyone tell me what their bodies have done after a chem preg: following cycles - long etc ?? ta xoxo

  16. #88
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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    age78- woohoo on a and lots of for you too, hopefully joining this thread helped your bfp come lol. I better save some sticky vibes for myself or else i will run out. Your levels sound good to me but I'm no expert, hope the spotting stops, brown spotting is usually ok, esp if no cramping as well.

    Loops- you really don't want to hear my story after my chem pregnancy, but i will tell you anyway- no AF for 2+ months and ended up having to take provera to bring it on then it was a very heavy nasty AF, but then it was back to normal. Is your AF overdue? Give it 6 wks ( from the start of the cycle)

    claresmummy- i understand your anxiety, hang in there hun xxx

    Sunbeam- vietnamese babies are cute, I used to work in a hospital where we had heaps of them, the people are lovely too. Are you tracking this cycle??

    AFM- well, the foxtel help desk wouldn't help me cos the accounts in DH's name and he is away but after a meltdown I used my wits and googled until I found out how to fix it, so I am good to go again with foxtel
    Hell week nearly over, then Saturday WOOHOO, long time coming xx

  17. #89
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
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    Age78~ Sorry darl I missed you post before, big huge congrats darl and sending you some massive amounts of sticky vibes. Here's to a H&H 9 months ahead. Good luck.

    Loops~ You are more than welcome darl, you are a wonderful person whom deserves every bit of my support, you have been there for me since I first joined BB and your support has been truly wonderful. xox

    Saffy~ WooHoo for google darl, great you have your remote fixed you wont be needing that long stick now to change your channels, Can't wait to read how you go on Saturday, getting excited for you now.....

  18. #90
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    Dec 2008
    Leongatha - South Gippsland, Victoria
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    thanks ladies - AF is arriving bit heavier now - good.

    Age ~ i have to apologise as well - I too missed your post. Congratulations on yor BFP!! those levels sound great - all the best!

    Saffy ~ thanks for that. As I thought originally with my other m/c the cycle straight after I think AF came only a little bit later but then the following cycles were very long. I'm assuming that will happen again although kinda hoping it wont be quite as bad because it was a chem preg and not that bit further along. Oh and I do believe this time is going to be a doozy of an AF because ive had cramping for like a week now already.
    Not long now - FX'd for you chicky!

    Clairesmummy ~ so pleased we've been able to support each other, although I want you to be able to head out of this thread too IYKWIM - like yesterday! And into the PG threads. xoxo
    Last edited by Loops12; July 21st, 2011 at 03:35 PM.

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