hi ladies just a quick update post will do persies later.i have had my mum in hospital since last thursday and monday caloundra hospital transferred her to nambour (WHEre her oncologist etc are) and in last couple days we have found out that she has staph in her foot and it has now spread into the bone and as a result she is having surgery today to remove at least part of her toe and the joint if not more.they really need to get it healing as her mastectomy is supposed to be three weeks yesterday (april 15).i have my laparoscopy next wednesday too..so much going on at the moment.still trying to get DP to get his butt into gear about getting us a second car again, coz now with everything with mum i need a car without having to get up at 4am just so i can have the car