Kass - What time do you normally take it? If it's only a couple of hours different, I'm sure it would be ok but best to check with your clinic to put your mind at ease.
Saffy - Have they suggested ICSI at all? I too had crappy fertilisation rates and tried ICSI last cycle and went from 1 out of 4 fertilising with a 2 day transfer on one cycle to having 7 blasts from 12 on the ICSI cycle 4 months later. DH's count is pretty normal too.
I am the same with my DH, he is the same as yours with the alcohol and he smokes, AND I have to remind him almost every day to take the Menevit. Like really, all they have to do is pop ONE vitamin pill daily (I take 3) and have a little self-love session per cycle - that's it! It really narks me sometimes but I try not to think about it because the complaining gets me nowhere anyway.
1More - You are on the road to success already, that is awesome weight loss for one week already. It's catch 22 isn't it, cause all the meds and emotions cry for comfort food (and I don't know about you but I love my food at the best of times!)
How did they come to that decision when you were all set to pick up your meds?
N2L - Geez.. May 26th.. I hope they can put you on standby in case of a cancellation... hopefully you won't need the appt.
AFM - 2nd day of Lite & easy and loving it and surprising DH isn't minding it also. Aiming to lose at least 10kg. It's just the exercise part that I am allergic to. Will try and start walking a bit now that the weather is a bit cooler. Also, went to Medicare to claim for U/S last week and they said I have met my quota of 4 and am not entitled to a rebate. They are counting the claims for U/Sounds done last Aug & Sep from my M/C pregnancy and 2 x u/s for IVF cycles in the quota and she couldn't even tell me if it was financial or calendar year. At $100/pop, they will sure add up throughout the year. I will definately try and take this further as I think this is unfair.
I've been stalking for some time, but have been keeping quiet while my first round of IVF ramps up.
My EPU was originally booked for Wed 23rd, but has been moved forward to the 21st (Monday ) due to me responding so well to the Puregon. At my u/s this morning, the nurse counted 18 follies, which is why they've brought it forward.
I was just wondering, how long does EPU take? I have to be at the hossy at 7am and EPU is booked at 8am. DH will drop his sperm off at the clinic at 7am... should he hang around, or should I just send him home?
Nic - He should hang around. I was under a general and pretty groggy. DH HAD to drive. You should have someone there. I was also in a bit of pain (not sure if that's normal EPU or because I had the polyp removed). Def need someone there!
N2l - I don't know what to say. Nothing I say will help. Just know we are here for you. We understand. Work through the questions you have and try to rest you mind. You poor thing.
Hi to everyone. Sounds like lots going on.
afm - been called in for another BT tomorrow and prob. Sunday too......Levels are increasing so O is on the way. CD16 today. BT's nearly everyday this week. I AM TIRED!! Plus I look like a junkie! My veins are actually hiding now. It is painful and frustrating. It feels like my EPU was a year ago....
I just wanted to say thank you all sooooo much for your words of comfort and wisdom. I know most of you have been in my shoes and have felt exactly what I am feeling right now. It isn't strictly true to say no words will make it better, because I do feel a little better after reading your posts (and having a good cry!)
I have decided to do a complete backflip and try to stay positive. Even though it is highly unlikely, I may be one of those women with slow/low HCG numbers. The three times I have been pregnant, twice I did not get a BFP until six weeks or more. The first tests I did came up negative each time. One of those pregnancies is now on sitting on the couch reading the lastest "Little Angel" magazine and dreaming of her upcoming 9th birthday slumber party. My mum said that she was the same with all five of her pregnancies (including one twin pg).
So, for now, I am going to be an ostrich and live in denial until I have confirmation from the BT. I may live to regret it but what else can I do?
So, HPT, this is what I think of your BFN ---- (if only there was a little "up yours" smilie!)
hi ladies elocin: welcome to lttc. good luck for EPU , i was only in hospital after my first epu for a couple of hours, but next time i woild prob take a couple more as i was so stuffed after i left. i don't know ho long it took?, good luck and praying for a BFP. tantee:it's hard to lose weight, i know. i have been walking with friends twice a week and one of them we take turns cooking or making a healthy meal for us to share, it's good as we keep each other motivated and it helps. bummer about u/s. good luck to you. x o
n2l: it's so hard the BFN's and the first is the worst, all i can say is try not to over analyse it and blame anything you did or you will go insane. i kept getting BFN's and it is hard but all we can do is keep moving forward. i am about to start my 2nd full stim cycle and all i can do is pray for a BFP this time. good luck to you. fingers crossed for next time. maybe it might help to read the lttc success stories they're good when you're feeling a bit down. x fingers crossed for you. 1moreplz: bummer for you hey but if it increases your chances it may be worth it. big hug for you. maybe try the diet and weight loss support thing on here as there are a few of us who need to lose a little weight and support helps. good luck to you. x o
saffy: men!. thank god my DH doesn't drink and i have him also taking all the vitamins. lol. yeah send him to acu that'll teach him. lol. good luck to you. good luck for EPU and ET. fingers crossed. x o
kass: i only just picked up my synarel on tue and nurse said to me to try to take same time each morning and night but if you're a little late it doesn't matter. good luck to you. woohoo, yipee. it's all happening and i won't be far behind you. x
loops: hope you " 0 "soon and then you can get some action happening and pray for a BFP. good luck to you
i actually think i got everyone !!!
afm: well nothing new til about 1st of april i go off pill, so pray for af to be good and can start synarel and gonal f jabbing. woohoo. i am on aome fertility support from acupuncture lady and will put dh on some mens stuff to help his little trapped friends. lol
not long to go now. got my fingers and toes crossed .
chat soon guys
Hi Everyone!
Thought I might join here...haven't been on BB for a while as needed a break..
Just on first FET after M/C at 5 wks with first IVF last month.
So currently doing the daily LH tests waiting for O....Had first BT today as FS thinks O day may be today.
Has anyone else here gone onto a FET straight after a fresh cycle? My FS warned me that my body may misbehave after all the drugs taken for a stim cycle but was pleasently surprised on Tues when he said there was a nice follies and thick linning! He thought O day would be today and therefore will have 3dt on tues...
However one unusual thing...Im having so light bloody discharge (sorry for TMI) yesteday and today which is very unusual prior to O! Hope this means this will still be ok for transfer
Will read everyones post and then do some personals
Hi albi,
I am on a FET cycle straight after a stim cycle. I too am having little to no cm. I was worried, but was told today that O is happening so not worried anymore. The drugs do take a while.......I had 10 follies this month all quite large. Maybe my body wanted more out of the stim cycle? Big chance of multiples so under strict instructions not to 'seal the deal' with DH.
Thanks ladies for all the responses. I am so excited and full of dread that I really don't know how to feel.....excited seems to be the main feeling. I'll stick with that!
Quick q: I have been planning to have my hair done next weekend (bleach and red highlights). Can this still go ahead after FET? Maybe I should go with an all over colour? Oh the important things in life.
Williever - Finally a date! Fingers crossed for an awesome bday present! Not sure about the hair question sorry!
Albi - Sorry to hear about your loss. Good luck with your transfer
Blossom - sounds like things are really tough at the moment Do you know what sort of chromosomal problem you have? Maybe you could look into pgd to sort out the good ones. A second opinion might be a good idea as well. Sorry I can't be more helpful
afm - got our power back a couple of hours ago - hooray! Had to do the shot at the inlaws this morning - bit stressful - DH's mum wanted me to let her do the jab (she's an ex-nurse and a can be a bit pushy) so DH had to distract her for me - I ended up rushing and gave myself a nice bruise - ouch!
Willi - I know some people dont like to get their hair colored while pg...Maybe ask the hairdresser??? Is there any way you can move the appointment forward to give yourself peace of mind?
Kass- ouch for the bruise! I had a couple of doozies on my stomach from the trigger and the stim. They can hurt cant they!
Just wondering when people got AF when they had a BFN cycle. I have not so good cramping at the moment. It really feels like AF is coming. But then I am only 12dpo which is early for me. Would it still be the crinone???
Thanks for your wishes for O'ing - must have helped because I got my smiley face this morning - YAY and we've DTD. And it was good, even though we were still thinking of TTC, we enjoyed it
Have a relay for life fundraiser tonight and a 21st so should keep my mind off TTC at least for a night. I wont be overdoing it and drinking too much though either. Im managing to keep my at bay
Hope everyone has a nice weekend.
Blossom ~ that's horrible they made you feel that way - I thought specialist were supposed to be positive and give you hope. Dont give up though - I'm sure there are loads of people that have had similar issues and gone on to get PG. I would go and see some other specialists and more opinions. I am already starting to look into adoption even though we may try IVF again - because it's a back up and no matter what I know I can't go through life without a child. DH and I have decided against donor sperm - mainly because of DH but I dont wont to push him on that as I see his points. Goodluck hun, keep tryin!
Big welcome to Elocin and Albi ~ with your IVF journeys, hope you guys get BFP's 1st go!
Williever ~ Great news - will have FX'd for Thursday and a BFP for you!!
n2l ~ hang in there - stay pos! Could def be the Crinone - it gave me all sorts of cramping etc.
Kass ~ goodluck with rest of the jabbing - dont get too bruised!
blossom- , what a bad few weeks you have had. The egg quality thing is on my mind too, if I don't get any joy by next year I will be investigating donor eggs ( my youngest sister probably, its only been casually mentioned though) Its a hard call, esp if you are already using donor sperm. Hope things improve for you, I know about the eating thing too, its hard not to comfort yourself when you feel down and food is easy to get! xx
N2L- cramping may still be a good sign, nothing you can do but wait, was your BT the 23rd??If theres no spotting I think you are still in w a chance xx
Williever- I had color done during a TWW before, it really can't be that toxic ( or we would all be having physical effects), and anyway the placenta isn't functioning til 6wks properly. I REALLY think its ok but this is just my opinion, and probably if you ask an acupuncturist etc they would say no. But if you get preggers, it surely it would be better to do it now than when you were 6-8wks?? Makes you feel better too xx
kass- thats funny about your MIL, glad the pwers back anyway!!
albi- GL with the FET, maybe the spotting is O spotting, some people get it. I haven't done back to backs so no idea sorry!
elocin- my DH went home but we only live 10mins away, so if he can entertain himself at the shops thats good.xx
JBM- 2 wks will fly and you will be jabbing xx
AFM- EPU next tuesday that is good because I have that day off so don't need to call in sick. DH was read the riot act about his drinking so is moping around complaining that all his thousands of social events are ruined Also, this is the funniest, when I txted him initially, he tried to blame the bad fertilisation rates on 'work stress' rather than his drinking Give me a break!!!
Last stim cycle i really got stressed about his lack of responsibiltiy but this time I am like you tantee and just letting it go cos its not worth me getting stressed over if he doesn't give a hoot!
They are counting the claims for U/Sounds done last Aug & Sep from my M/C pregnancy and 2 x u/s for IVF cycles in the quota and she couldn't even tell me if it was financial or calendar year. At $100/pop, they will sure add up throughout the year. I will definately try and take this further as I think this is unfair.
girls,
) due to me responding so well to the Puregon. At my u/s this morning, the nurse counted 18 follies, which is why they've brought it forward.
(if only there was a little "up yours" smilie!)
You have nothing to lose 
Do you know what sort of chromosomal problem you have? Maybe you could look into pgd to sort out the good ones. A second opinion might be a good idea as well. Sorry I can't be more helpful
at bay
with your IVF journeys, hope you guys get BFP's 1st go!
Also, this is the funniest, when I txted him initially, he tried to blame the bad fertilisation rates on 'work stress' rather than his drinking 
Give me a break!!!
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