springlola - sorry to hear that,this whole process is so hard!! Do they know what the problem is?

Thanks everyone for your support - I don't feel very brave Saffy, I feel like crap and like I am going to lose it at any second. DH is trying to be positive about it all and hoping it works out. When I got my results it was a nurse I had not dealt with before and compared to the others that are so nice she is quite short and not that nice and she said yes its positive but the numbers are low which is not good - now I have to tell you about ectopic pregnancy blah blah blah....... One of the nurses I know rang me back after about the next BT and she was so much nicer and told me ALL the scenarios for low numbers including the one when it works out.

thanks again ladies - you are the best