That just plain sucks! I'm happy for her that she doesn't have to go through what we are/have but for pete's sake, why is it soooo easy for some and not the rest of us?!
I start Clomid tonight. We are taking a similar approach to you & DH- not DTD every second day... Again, it hasn't worked for the past 5 cycles, so why would it for this one?! I am going to use OPK's too and then go for it! Most people not on Clomid use OPK's and have success!
Anyway, better go and do some housework or something.....
Yes totally sucks I know. Whilst I would never wish this journey upon anyone I also don’t like having it shoved in my face how easily some people get preggas. I hate it when people say “All I have to do is lie down and I’m pregnant”. Oh well, I’ll cheer up and stop being such a grouch soon.
Wow so you’re starting Clomid tonight? That must mean that we are very close in our cycles. GL I hope you don’t have too many side effect this round. And yes I agree DTD everyday sounds like fun for us too. I have a few friends that have had success on OPK’s so I’ve been using them for the past few months also, they’re just hard read that’s all.
Aw Keli, That is so hard to hear how easy it is for other isnt it. Like you said you would wish it upon anyone but just sux that we all have to go to this extreme and takes forever and some people it happens straight away..
I do believe that tho it does make you appreaciate it so so much more, and i truely believe that there will be a special bond between you and that miracle baby of your when he/she is ready. I hated everyday when me and DH were TTC the 2 years were the hardest ever. But no i honestly believe that everything happened for a reason and this little bub that i have inside me was meant to be ours and if we didnt do everything that we did we wouldnt have this most precious bub.. It will happen and when it does im sure you will feel the same.. Hugs to you and hoping this round works..
Tammara so glad everything is all on track with you, Bubby growing nicely in there now and before you no it you will be getting all the big kicks that keep you awake all night, Its the best feeling..
As for everyone else, welcome all the newbies and im praying for each and everyone still TTC for that BFP that we all deserve...
Me... Im 26 weeks 1 day.. Everything is going great, we have 4d scan in 2 days DH and i cant wait to see our little one again. Get lots of kicks everyday Dh just talks near my belly and bubby goes crazy with kicks..
Keli - I totally hear you... I just moved to a new place and whenever I meet new people, they have 1 questions:
1. how long have you been married?
2. have you got any kids?
Also, at the moment I'm studying, and in the past month, 2 of my classmates have given birth, and 3 are pregnant. It's pretty tough...
AFM - onto third day of clomid today. though hopes are pretty low for this cycle considering hubby's 2nd sperm analysis came back pretty much the same as the 1st one (morphology is not good). He still needs to go to a urologist though, so just waiting to get an appointment before we can see the FS and discuss the next steps.
Yup I totally empathise with feeling grrr when hearing about other people getting UTD so easily. But Frustrated is right - the individual journey that we are all going on to conceive will mean that when we all get to that stage of holding that long awaited bubba in our arms, it will all be worth it and we will appreciate that precious little bundle more than words can ever explain. Hang in their girls - your time will come (I can't believe I just wrote that - I used to hate it when people told me my "time will come when it's meant to!")
GL to all the girls starting or already on this round of clomid. I reckon DTD every day is a good idea if you and DH can manage it and not get too stressed by the fact you 'have to do it' (this used to be quite an issue for DH at times...)
AFM I went to the doc today to get some blood tests (my naturopath wants to check iron etc) and I also asked for a confirmation that I'm UTD. I am still having a hard time believing it because I have no symptoms really except for feeling a bit tired. I'm 5 weeks on Thursday and I want big boobs already! (I'm incredibly flat chested so will enjoy a bit of cleavage for once in my life!)
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