I'm at work at the moment, so sorry I haven't done personals.
I'm freaking out right now as I too have some bleeding. I have a history of short luteal phase and was taking pessaries to over come this for the last 6 months or so. I kept on asking if the crinone was going to be strong enough to hold me and they kept on saying yes. I should have insisted on the pessaries. I just know my period will be here tomorrow, just 8dpt.
I spoke to the nurse who said that if it's brown (which it is) then it is probably just crinone clearing out old blood. But I once had break through bleeding on pessaries and it started off the same way. Apparantely all I can do is wait until tomorrow?? WTF?? I feel like I need to know now.
I was even taking my temperature the last few mornings to check for signs of impending period. This morning is was 36.73C and usually I don't get my period until at around 36.65C or so. I guess there's not really much difference and the crinone is probably keeping it up a bit higher.
Hey ladies after cramping and slightly heavier bleeding today i thought the nurse was going to tell me it had failed but when i got the call my HCG level has more then doubled to 178 and my progesterone has increased to 40!! im having another BT on monday to see how things are still going, im so releaved im still prgnant but im still soooo scared!!! the nurse said the bleeding and pains could be the placenta forming???
I asked my nurse about inserting the pessaries in the bum and she had never heard of it but said she would check with the DR but i forgat to check when she called but she said it could make sense as there are lots of blood vessels up there.
Kaybee-im sorry but dont lose hope miracles do happen, dont give up xx
Lisa B- Stay positive i know its hard, sending hugs xx
Last edited by oneday86; June 24th, 2010 at 04:21 PM.
oneday - wow, good news so far!! I hope to hear more of it. I completely understand that you are scared. Sorry hun, I had to have a little laugh when you talked to the nurse about pessaries up the bum. That must have been a hard topic to broach. Before I understood that the woman at my FS front counter was a PA and not a nurse I told her TMI a few months back. I told her that the FS really needed to call me because I had blood on my panty liner (my last break through incident). DP can't look at her with a straight face anymore. I can't believe how public our private affairs become
Kaybee - it must be so hard for you right now. know that I'm thinking of you. I'm hoping that little embie holds on tight.
Lairdoz - GL hun, yes sailing through would be great wouldn't it. It would have been so nice to fall pregnant in the first few months of trying and to be oblivious to all the possibilities of what could go wrong.
Hi to all the other ladies. I hope your travelling smoothly through your TWW and finding heaps of things to distract yourselves with.
AFM: I'm so unproductive at work, my mind is on the TWW. I"m just doing the minimal to get by. Do others have problems concentrating at work, or is it just me?
Ladies, im sooooooo down! the bleeding has increased slightly everyday, i still have cramps and today there are even small blood clots!!! and thats what the nurse said i need to worry about. iv done a home preg test everyday and all have been positive but i dont know im still very worried and i guess the HCG would still be in my system even if i miscaried wouldnt it? im thinking bout ringing the after hours doctor. Im so scared!!! my DH said to me last night you have been so down abut not being prgnant and now that you are your still not happy. I just dont feel like i can be, i guess im just preparing my self for the worst. i just wish everything could go smoothly! i needed to post cause you ladies understand and have been through the same xxxx
ME 23 & DH 25
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STIM #1 BFN
FET #2 BFN
FET #3 BFP
I'm sorry you are going through all of this. I know I wouldn't be managing any better than you.
If you feel you want to phone the afterhours service you should do so, that's what they are there for and get paid for.
You've had good HCG and progesterone increases so far, so hopefully that is an indication of the will power your little embie has right now.
I don't know much about HCG, but I thought I remember reading somewhere that some ladies notice it fading when they are miscarrying. I'm just not really sure.
Know that I'm thinking of you and sending very sticky vibes to your little embie!
Thanks lisa b, i rang the after hours DR and he said i just need to wait till my mon BT but he didnt sound very positive, im hoping sooooo much or little embie is still there but i dont think so thank you so much for replying xxxx
Don't you had getting told just to wait a few days!!! I think it's the worst thing to say when someone is stressed and just wants answers and reassurance - well for me it is anyway. When I phone the nurses in a crisis I want a course of action, a test or something to feel like we're moving forwarding and getting on top of the issue.
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