Oh ladies! Sending you so much goodluck!!
And thanks for the lovely welcome.
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Oh ladies! Sending you so much goodluck!!
And thanks for the lovely welcome.
Good luck blossom with your BT today
Good luck with your BTs ladies, fingers and toes crossed for you :hug::goodluck: xoxo
Another BFN for me girls absolutely devastated don't know how much more of those I can take! Really don't think my dream of being a mum is going to happen!
Good luck Krikkit and everyone else hope u get some good news x
I am so very sorry Bloss. It gets harder and harder I know. :hug:
Stalking Krit xxx
I'm so sorry Bloss :( :hug::
Oh, Blossom, I'm so sorry! :(
very very sorry bloss xoxoxo i know what you mean,i feel the same, its hard to imagine it actually happening after so many let downs. a very big hug and be kind to yourself, i wish there was some magic wand i could wave to help us all get our mummy dreams!
krikkit thinking of you xoxox
welcome pinkseamonster :hello:
So sorry blossom, sending you a huge hug I know how hard a bfn is. Be kind to yourself xo
Sarahkurt you and I wrote at the se time and I just read yours and thought it ironic that we both said be kind to yourself :-)
yeh thats ironic kerbear ;) i think we get so upset and cross with our bodies for not working like we want sooo much hat we forget to be kind to ourself, maybe it helps :think:
So sorry bloss :(
I'm sorry bloss, another BFN must be so hard to take. Sending my love and many of those :hug: xoxoxoxox
So sorry bloss - still waiting here, although hpt showed bfn this morning
so, so sorry blossom xx
krikkit hope your bt shows different
vic fingers crossed for you hun
So sorry Blossom. A BFN is so defeating. Don't give up!
Thanks girls ill be ok had my big cry, thinking about planning my next and last cycle!!! Going to seminar tomorrow with doc from Argentina re donor embies and eggs be a reality hit but need to be realistic and check other options now not 100% though!
Does anyone recommend doing a laproscopy before I do my next cycle? It's been 4 years want to try anything now.
Good luck Krikkit and Vic xx
sorry, blossom. that sucks. xx
Blossom, it took a lap for us to get DD, but I had suspected endo for 10 years at that point (but had been repeatedly told by Drs that my pain was "normal"). If you want to take a "leave no stone unturned" approach and you haven't had one, then it's a valid diagnostic tool, but it does come with all the risks of abdominal surgery. I went into my first lap knowing that a woman I went to school with had terrible complications from a lap she had for her endo (and that she went to the same hospital and may even have had the same surgeon), but it was worth the risk to increase our chances of success (and it worked!). The risk vs reward considerations are a very personal thing, so no-one can tell you whether you should or shouldn't do a lap, but they can give you different ideas and points to consider in making your decision.
Krikkit, sorry to hear the HPT was BFN.
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yeh, I agree with juniper do the lap - I got pregnant with DD after mine. Found endo and removed a heap of fibroids.
Anyways - got my confirmed BFN .. sorta excited at the prospect of changing to a different clinic, but feeling guilty also (thanks to the nurse on the phone) but they didn't feel guilty about not seeing me when I was in hospital.
Thanks Krikkit sorry you got BFN as well! X
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thanks bloss - drowning sorrows tonight in choccy and a drink I think :)
I'm sorry Krikkit, I hope the new clinic will bring you your BFP next time :hug: xox
Krrikit, my sentiments exactly already downed half a bottle of wine, yummy cheese and hitting the block of chocolate next, enjoy x
Krikkit I am sorry to hear about your bfn, hopefully the change and new doctor will help get your bfp.
big hugs Krikkit :grouphug: bloomin not fair hun xxooo
this is now my second cycle after my lap Bloss, it cost me a sml fortune but they did find some endo and a very blocked lft tube which was cleared out.... im hoping it helps :dunno: but its made me feel a lil better... i dont have so much cramping throughout the month it seems now which is good.
id say give it a go if you can xoxox
I am so grumpy today. I'm on CD19 and should have BD'd yesterday but didn't. DH came home late from work and had drunk a bottle and a half of wine I got so angry with him that I just went to sleep. I am now desperately hoping I haven't wasted the cycle by missing this day. My last cycle on clomid I got AF smack bang on CD28, that means I O'd on CD14. So I am hoping this cycle is the same.
BT on Monday (CD21) to see if I've double O'd. Bleh bleh bleh. Tired and over it today. Oh pounding headache too. Joy.
aw pinkseamonster!! ... i know that situation too well, and theres a few times i coulda wrung my DH s neck for doing the same thing! lol its already hard enough!
but they dont understand sometimes and theres nothing we can do! infact its all a big game of everything out of our hands i think sometimes!... my DH refuses to take supplements to boost his guys, he says they are perfect" lol and he thinks i am way over the top with trying to stay healthy to TTC, and i probably am, but hey being a LTTTC'er i think we need all the help we can get!
make sure you babydance soon tho if you can! good luck xoxox
sarah4kurt, Thanks for the boost!
I am feeling better today. Not grumpy at the DH anymore. I'm just tired and this cycle is getting to me. They say Clomid can effect your emotions, so I am hoping it's just that and I'll push through.
One hopeful spark is that I realised I didn't get any mid cycle spotting around CD 18. For the last 6 months or so I've been getting this in my cycles, so I am hoping this is a good sign!!
Blood test to see if I've double O'd tomorrow. Then the wait continues...
Good luck for tomorrow psm. I hope you o'd. Clomid made me evil too. Sometimes DH just had to breath too noisily and it would irritate me. lol.
Yeah i hear you! Clomid made me a horrid too!... grumpy and up and down!
im not on it now thankfully, im taking puregon and it seems alot kinder to my emotions lol. but i do have to jab every day instead of pop a pill! i think the mucking of our allready fradgile emotional state is the worst side of LLTTC!!
Big Hugs and good luck xoxoxo ... i get to find out on tues how many follies i got this time, was three last time
Jumping back over this side. We transferred "the little embie that could" this morning... Thawed perfectly, but behind on growth. Keeping our FX nonetheless...
GL Juniper and the rest of you ladies :crossfingers: xox
Welcome to the madness juniper :)
I am too scared to poas. I dont want to not be pg. I am happy just to stay pupo forever. I am dreading that single line :( dont know how will cope.
I'm here too. But just for a fake non-AC cycle :D
I woke up 2AM last night and I can't fall sleep again. I felt very depressed this morning(this is the only Third morning after I transferred). I did not have this feeling in my previous three cycle. I was wondering I had two Crinone gel (one in the morning and one at night, because my period always came earlier before Pregnancy test, my doctor is trying to adjust my luteal phase). I am wondering to know it is my hormone affect me on my emotion or not?
I am getting worried that if I feel down it can affect me for my embroy implantation.
The 2ww sucks... Just sayin'...
popping in to say goodluck Juniper, N2l, Vic have everything crossed for you x
Anyone else in here goodluck hope to see some BFPs x
Thanks Blossom. I've been thinking of you and hoping you're doing okay. :hug:
Sooooo hungry right now.... Have decided to put my dinner (leftovers) on even though DD is sleeping (late nap) and DH isn't hungry yet. If I don't eat a meal now I'm going to snack my way through 3 days worth of kJ...