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Hi Murrycod,
Thanks for sending me this link. I have not been logged on but I have been lurking and I have everything crossed for you. Congratulations on making a gjillion eggies too that must have been agony. You are so my inspiration and if I have to do IVF i will be picking your brains about the whole thing. I was also going to ask for more info on the NK test. I've seen it can be a bt but you mentioned a biopsy? I think it is something I'd like to follow up.
Hi Porsche - fellow Queenslander. Not sure I have been posting much since you joined so hi.
AFM-I am 10dpo and 95% sure I am not pg. We have one more IUI then IVF which I really am not looking forward too. I had a major melt down last Wednesday and cried all night about what I will do if I never have a child. The next day I felt much calmer and so much relieved to have a plan (I'm going to sell my investment property and go to Vietnam for 3 months and reassess what I want to do and probably end up running an orphanage or something !!). Before this it had almost felt like my life would be pointless without a child. I also gave all my baby stuff to my friend so it is not in my house taunting me about how ridiculous it is that I have draws full of baby stuff and no baby.
Glad to be on a new thread.
Hello everyone Lenny thanks so much for the new thread there are a good few of us that need it !
I am around day 24 depending on my cycle length, so in the TWW after having a mc in sept 09 at 12wks 5days I only found out there was a problem when I went for a scan after slight spotting !
Well its been a long road since then and I am on the wrong side of 40 to be able to get any kind of help at 45 so I pray that one day I will get my BFP again and a healthy bub however long it takes,
Since joining BB my life has changed so much I have managed to greive and be happy and sad with people who understand how it feels its wonderful.
Hey murraycod not long till we test I think I will wait for you to test if AF hasn't arrived for me by then I may test on the same day !
Sunbeam Hi sorry you have had a rough time of it lately. SO brave of you to give all your stuff away just think how exciting it will be having to buy it all again when you get your BFP. Think the NK test is a good idea for you as you have been pg a few times and it may be the key !
Porshe how you doing not long now and you will be back in the race so to speak when AF turns up hope shes not too long away !
Hello to everyone else who will come and join us in here !
Sunbeam, so nice to see you
I thaught of you straight away when I saw this new thread, I knew it would get you to come out of the woodwork!!! Mwah !!!
Honey, please don't feel down about IVF if this is where you are to lead. Honey, it is actually so exciting. Way more involved yes, and a tad more invasive yes, but when you give that first needle you become addicted to the whole process and you will suprise yourself how much you learn and enjoy each part of it.
As for the NKcells, haven't heard of a BT for it, the biopsy is the only way they can test the tissue of the endometrium, they take a biopsy 4-5 days before AF when lining is at it's thickest.
Worst and best procedure I have ever had I tell you!! They are a huge factor for recurrent M/C. The studies for it are still very new, I would love to know of anyone who has also been diagnosed and had a healthy baby after being treated.
Honey, all the best for this cycle, only you know deep down what's happening this time, hey, I won't sugar it up too much, you have a place to fall if this cycle is a bust, it is right here mate X
Crafty girl!!!! M'e English lassie!!!! Gidday!!!! I promised myself that I would not POAS this time round. You have to help drag me all the way then If you are going to hold out with me....or we could hide and POAS together!!! NO!! Don't give me any ideas, encouragement or excuse to go there. Not this time.....yet
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