Meredith I just read your post and thought I had better share something with you.
I read an article in UK medical journal which suggested that women who suffer from recurrant miscarriage, should have a significant break of about 6 months before even trying again, to make sure the body is in the best possible condition eady for pregnancy. the miscarriage is traumatic for the body and the uterus needs time to recover and then get back to a condition good enough for supporting a pregnancy.
Me personally, I would probably be like you, desperate to try again as soon as possible, but I thought I'd share that with you, as I found it interesting.
BTW a friend of mine had a m/c at 13 wks and waited nearly a year before getting pregnant again. She tried hard for the last 6 months of that time and did have a 6 month break, she now has a 15 month old girl, so you see there is hope for you
Good luck with your op, I hope it goes well and you get some answers [-o<
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