Janee,

when did I not think that maybe it wasn't meant to be? We tried TTC for 2 and a 1/2 years after a tubal ligation reversal without luck, then I found out my tubes were scarred over and I couldn't conceive naturally, then we had 7 unsuccessful IVF cycles.....all the time I was thinking maybe this is the way it's supposed to be, maybe DH and I were not meant to have a child together (I have 3 from a previous marriage, all concieved naturally)

I thought perhaps I wasn't going to ever fall because of the abortions I had when I was younger, because I tied my tubes when I was 26, that I just didn't deserve it. Perhaps all the problems we had must mean we just weren't meant to be parents again?

But I now believe there isn't a rhyme or reason, and just because you're battling infertility doesn't mean you aren't meant to have children. Or my little'un sure wouldn't be here.

love
sushee

PS man, I've been posting in here a lot today! Lol!