Hi Mez Moz,

Im in the same boat, weve bee TTC for about 14 months now, though we were unproctected for atleast 3years but not trying on correct dates, if that makes sense.
im 24 & hubbys 27, i have PCOS & am on my 3rd Clomid cycle.
Last week i called my FS & i asked should i have a laparoscopy, but she informed me that is only for women with Endo, maybe you should ask your FS that 1st cos you wouldnt want to do the procedure if it wasnt necessary, i googled it, its surgery.

I understand completeley about not telling your friends, unfortunately i found out i had PCOS when i was 16 or 18, & not understanding the full extent to it, i told all my friends, now thinking on it i wish i hadnt. since then 2 of my friends have had countless abortions, & you would understand how that had made me feel. Both them friends had a baby in the end, 1 is due in January. Now i dont tell anyone we are trying cos i dont want them to know, its so painful.

I dont know if this will help anyone, but i google alot () & so last week i googled what things to eat & not to eat while trying, i know that they arent proven facts, but it helps me when im trying to help myself.. Aparently Caffiene is a no no, & you should eat heaps of Berries & oysters, or subsitute oysters for Zinc Vitamins!

All the obvious things, like fatty foods, you shouldnt eat.. ill find out what Vitamins are good for women TTC & post it..

GOODLUCK LADIES!!

Xx Jess