kashby - in total agreeance with you re: testing at home before nurses call. if im pregnant, i want me & dh to be the first to know. not me & the nurse! as for dtd in tww, i can do without it to be honest. the crinone usually puts me off bc im on 2 x daily. this FET its just 1 x daily, but i can still do without! dont see how sperm would harm embryo - thats crazy talk. just do what you & your dh are comfortable with. btw, henry is my boy name, so cute!

hi to mia & planetsasha.