so sorry to leave you hanging ladies, i have been out all day. its a bfn for me too, af arrived yesterday. went in to get BT today but the clinic was packed, and i was going to have to wait over 30 minutes, so i left. i will pop in this week and get it done. i am ok about it, like kashby i had a lovely dinner & glass of wine (or two!) with dh last night. i knew it hadnt worked this time round, so i was prepared by the time af arrived. i might take a month or two off and go again with a FET. thankyou all for your thoughts & well-wishes.

mia - great BT results, best of luck for the next 8-9 months.
goodluck to everyone else in the tww, i think we are due for another bfp in here...