LTTTC Two Week Wait 2013 # 2

[faye*]

Feeling really down, only 3 days past transfer and I already know I'm out. The PMT and AF cramps have started already! 2 months in a row that these symptoms have come so soon after transfer... Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can ask FS to try differently next time?? I thought the pessaries might help this time but obviously not.... Leading up to this transfer I was so sure this one was it, I feel like a fool letting myself get my hopes up so high - just set myself up for an even bigger fall

[juniper76]

Furbabies, I'm going to respectfully disagree with them. You transferred a 5 day embryo, so that made you, for all intents and purposes, 5dpo, even if you didn't O. Hopefully the dating scan will line up with the correct dates.

*edit*
Mind you, if you use the later EDD (based on them saying 4wks), that gives you an extra 5 days at the end before they try to push you into an induction (or other intervention), so I probably wouldn't argue with them in spite of disagreeing...

[myturn]

oh faye

I know this won't help that much - but try to remember that you do have extra hormones (from the pessaries) running through you, so it's possible that your feelings might be from all of that too - a little bit of hope for just a little bit longer sweetie xx


Furbabies - I'm with Juniper on this one - it's weird that they said that, my clinic always counts the dates from the day of egg pick up (or equivalent) as that's when conception occurred.... but of course you can only go by what they tell you