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Oh yes.... Planning to stress yourself out tonight and lose sleep then HAVE to POAS every day for the rest of the week and feel miserable sounds like a great plan.... If that's how you get your jollies...
Personally I say wait for the day of BT.... You will just feel crap and miserable. It's not a good way to live.
As usual myturn you make excellent points! :)
But I am a POASer, so I think I will test, but you have maybe convinced me not to test today....
It would be a waste of a good pee stick after all....
Xx
By all means test if that's your thing..... Just as long as it helps you.... If it makes you feel crap then it's not the right choice... That's what I reckon anyway :)
Lol, there you go, normally I'd say test test test!!! but I'm with my turn, if you test tonight, you'll feel really crap if you get a neg. I'd say test tomorrow arvo if you really want to test, that will be 6dpt and that should give you a result either way. Good luck Hun!
We'll I'm off to do the BT tomorrow, is it too rude to tell them not to bother calling unless it's good news ? Lol
That's not a bad idea Miss B!
Good morning everyone,
I am feeling super emotional this morning, so I just wanted to say thank you so much to everyone especially Miss B, Juniper and Saffy who have been here to keep me company in the 2ww. I am so grateful to you guys. The last 6 days have been really tough for me cause DH is away and I cant talk to anyone IRL about what is going on. Having you guys "in here" has meant the world to me, and it seems fitting on a Monday morning and with 3 more sleeps to go, that I take the time to thank you, from the bottom of my heart. The 2ww feels like a torture chamber that I wouldn't want my worst enemy to be subjected too.... And it's so weird when you consider that it either ends with either head in the clouds happiness or a heavy heart sadness.
Either way and whatever the result is, I just wanted to let you know that your support, and care has been deeply appreciated and that it is so special to have the same BB friends around me in this 2 WW as I had in my 2ww in 2012. That has been so special and has been a bit like 'coming home'.
I am going to test today - but I am taking Miss B's advice, which has been supported by the amazing Saffy and I wont be testing until late this afternoon. Myturn, I slept on what you said and I think you are right - it is only a good idea to test, if it will help me. To be honest in this situation I think it is the best thing for me to do, for me. I had always kind of decided that I would test 6dpt, because this is when I tested with the twins (which is probably a good reason for not testing today - as the beautiful Amy_jb pointed out, my hcg was probably higher, earlier with the twins, because there was 2 of them) and also DH is coming home late on Thursday night. My BT is Thursday so I will get the results while he is in the air and I want some time I absorb whatever the result is and get used to it, before he arrives home. If it's a negative - I want some time to process and cry before DH arrives home. I don't want him to come home after 10 days away from his family and find me in a mess. If it's a positive, I would like to keep testing until Thursday to see if the line keeps getting darker so that I can tell him on Wednesday night, before he gets on the plane. My DH flies a lot, so he doesn't worry about things like MH370, however I do and even though I fly a lot as well - I'm terrified of flying. I always worry something terrible will happen to him and it doesn't help that he was supposed to be in the exact place MH370 was supposed to land at exactly the same time (and on the same airline) but the only reason he delayed his trip was so that he could be here for the transfer... If anything was going to happen to him, I would want him to know the result. Oookkkaaayyyy - when I read that comment back, I feel like I'm a crazy woman and my hormones are seriously out of whack!! That kind of came out wrong (if something happened to him, the last thing on my mind would be whether I was pg or not!)...
ANYWAY.... I am going to test late this afternoon. My transfer was at 7.30am last Tuesday, so it will be 6.5 days theoretically, when I test. I'm not sure realistically when you are supposed to trust the test, but I think Miss B you tested on 6dp5dt when you got your bfp? If it's a neg then I will wait and test again Wednesday morning, if it's still a neg then I will feel like I can start the grieving process. I feel quite calm this morning. Thank you lovely ladies for getting me through the weekend and for encouraging me not to test last night....
Btw - my boobies were so sore last night I had to sleep in a bra! I am not very well endowed in the chest area, and the twins were not breastfed - so they have never been very interested in my boobs... But interestingly, last night before I put them to bed, twin 1 was grabbing for my boobs?? I know it's probably just the progesterone, but I know people talk about animals being able to 'sense things' like those Bisson running out of Yellow Stone park last week (because apparently they can sense an earthquake) - does anyone think babies would be able to sense hormonal changes? I thought it was really interesting!
Sorry for the rambling... And the ridiculously long and uninteresting post! I've been awake since 4am, (my sleeping has really turned to cr*p since I've been on the pessaries). And tbh, being in here was a good way to distract myself from the
pee sticks calling out to me from the bathroom cupboard!
Happy Monday everyone, I hope you have a great start to the week. And before I test, I just wanted to say thank you for being here for me... I hope that I can be here for you too in your next 2ww. I will come back after I have tested, later today.
Xxx
TTL.... That sounds like a very sound plan xoxo
Good luck, I'll be crossing everything for you xoxo
another stalker wishing you all the best, ttl... xx
I haven't said anything as I am the poas queen as every knows so I think you were given great advice :)
But given today is test day just came in to wish you well xx
Fingers crossed 3rd time lucky! Getting mighty close to 'late arvo' lol xx
Stalking too to see how you are going and what the test results are xx
Okay, sorry for the delay! It's 4.15pm in Perth so that's still afternoon?! :)
I wanted to test again, and wait. Uggghhhhhhhthe waiting!!
It's avgery feint bpf ladies! Super exciting - but very early days! Your the first to know.... Even before DH! I don't want to tell him anything until tomorrow. Is pretty feint but visible n 3 separate tests (yeah not like I was planning to testor anything!). I feel a bit scared now!
It's about as feint as the girls was on 6dpt.
I will test again in the morning FMU and see how it goes. Thank you for everything guys - of couse I will be back soon.
Xxx
Sounds promising, ttl... : )
Ooh... So exciting :) will be crossing everything it's a sticky one xoxo
Yay!!!! So exciting 3rd time lucky, crossing everything for you that it's a sticky one xxx
Eeeekkkk!!! Woo hoo!
Yay I knew it, you don't get those symptoms from pessaries!!! Congratulations xx
Sorry to interrupt the good vibes...
Carrying on the conversation here.
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