Sorry Coral ~ I just missed your post. Thanks so much for all that Info hun, I'm going to print it and get my husband to read it. I know he wants a child almost as much as I do but I feel I really have to push him and pester to get him to do things. The biggest one for him will be to stop smoking again and give up or drink a lot less alcohol.
I really really appreciate your sharing - thank you. All the best for #2 - that's exciting!