Okay - I am officially back in the tww but we are natural cycles only.
I don't normally come into this thread but being due for AF Christmas eve, I thought it would be nice to have a little extra support. I had a CP (chem pg) last month so feeling a little more anxious I guess about this month.
Hoping there will be another run on miracles in here this month so to us all.
well, i have woken up with what looks and feels like af....
i have only made it 7dpt , bt was 17th and it is only day 24 of my cycle. i can usually get to day 26...
it is sooooo disapointing to not be pregnant , but it makes it worse when you get af so early. i am not sad yet as i am still in shock....
i have only told 3 friends this time around so i wont have to explain myself 1000 times over as to what went wrong!!!??
so now i will have to re-think my plans.. i only have 2x embies in the freezer and i dont think i will ever do a full IVF again. we have been trying since jun 2006, and it feels our lives have been on hold since then.
goodluck S'rose and bella55 with your TWW. i hope they are longer and more positive then mine.
bye xx
So sorry Kittycat, what a dreadful morning for you. Take care of yourself for a couple of days first before trying to even think about whats next... Hugs to you and DH.
s'rose- good luck this month, hope you get a wonderful xmas pressie!
I am in here too, from a natural cycle...my period is due Christmas day or boxing day I think...dont expect much, and when/if AF arrives will start on the pill for our next full IVF cycle
i officially joined the TWW on Tuesday following a FET (Kitty, I totally agree, the FET is a lot easier on the body). As it is only day 2 past FET I'm feeling good and the ususal TWW angst hasn't set in yet! But I'm sure it's not far away...!
Bella - I hope this IUI is a success for you. Fingers crossed
Kitty - that does sound early for AF - are you absolutely sure it is AF? I was always told to expect some bleeding post FET. Try to hang in there. It might not be bad news... (my sister always reminds me she had a full bleed when she was pg)
S'rose - So sorry about your chem pg last month. I've also had 2 very early m/cs - they are awful. I hope you're doing ok. Good luck for your natural cycle this month.
Possums - glad to hear you're back in the TWW! Will have fingers crossed for your natural cycle in the lead up to Xmas. And if that doesn't work, then it's great that you have an IVF plan for the new year.
JBM - yay! congrats on your FET. I'm excited that we're 1 day apart! This is it for sure. Bring on the Xmas BFP!!
Meredith - is your BT tomorrow?? Good luck!
Hi to everyone else Let's go pick up those BFPs we ordered for Christmas
I have lots to catch up on! Havent been in here for a few days now.
Firstly, a BIG CONGRATULATIONS to Farmgirl and Rach. Thats TERRIFIC!!!! news Here's to a healthy pregnancy.
JBM - Hope your travelling well. Good luck and hope this is the one.
Kittycat - Sorry to hear that AF has arrived. Hang in there and good luck with your next step.
S'rose - Here's hoping for a Christmas miracle!
Possums - Im in the same position as you. My fingers and toes are crossed
Mels - Good luck. Hope you get a BFP for Christmas
Hello to everyone else!
AFM - DP and I have tried naturally this month. I used an ovulation test last week and we did the "baby dance" as much as we could. HOPEFULLY we get our Christmas miracle. If not, I got back on the pill and start my next stim cycle.
Sorry, not up to personals today. Feel like the world is crashing on me atm
Past 2 days I had beun to feel fairly confident i was actually pg. Usually i would have very strong AF cramps by now - not happening, plus I've had sore BBs and yesterday felt quite nauseus at times.
With all my other IUI cycles, this has always been a great sign and I have always done HPT around this time (12dpo). My "gut" feeling has always been right and if I think I am pg then have always been greeted with two strong lines.
Well, feeling confident, I did HPT today. NO second line. Not even a hint of a second line when I squinted!.
So I would have to say a defnite BFN for us and must be the whole IVF which is messing with my body. I know everyone will come in here and say "its to early" or "don't give up until your BT'" but i KNOW there is no chance. I have been pg 5 times and even though all but 1 were not sucessful, they all gave good strong BFP on HPT so a -ve HPT IS a BFN for me.
I am more shattered than i ever expeced to be. Had to call DH ome from work. I was sooooo hopeful for this cycle and just still in shock I guess. This year has just been bad news after bad news after bad news. I just don't know how much more I can take.
To add to that, I am stressing already about what we do next. DH thinks we should just go back to IUI and take our chances without PGD. He is worried not only b the costs, but also thinks all our embies were damaged by the testing. I can see his point given our "drop off" from 14embies and none frozen but I am also terrified of having more m/cs. Haven't got appt with FS until the end of Jan. I REALLY need some questions answered before then.
So sorry for the rant, I know everyone in here has faced failed cycles. I think I am just reaching the end of my tether at seeing our dreams slipping away faster by the day.
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to us all.
Let's go pick up those BFPs we ordered for Christmas
Here's to a healthy pregnancy.
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