cp: don't know about being too early as today is day 28 and this is my usual cycle length. but thanks for thinking of me xxoo praying for your miracle.
My "not thinking about it" strategy, combined with internet problems, has meant that I've not dropping into the TWW yet. We had our last frostie (just one) back in on Tuesday, so I'm not 10 DPO and the Dr says we can test on the 30th. We did a medicated FET so I have to take tablets 3 times per day and crinone in the morning (yuck!).
I'm not feeling any symtpoms and I don't have a particular feeling either way about the result. (Last time I just knew that it was a BFN from early on).
My heart goes out to those that have had a BFN - I've just read this thread to catch up.
just sending out my love to mels77 - congrats love! enjoyit!!! don't worry about the glass of wine. if you were guzzling a bottle at 12 weeks then i'd be worried... one glass this early - not worries.
jbm - i'm feeling for you atm and becd - hugs for you.
good luck all... we are still in our natural litttle fantasy... dtd LOTS lol and it's much more fun this way... not sure will get a bfp, in fact we are pretty sure we won't but it's fun all the same... i think i ovluated yesterday but am not too stressed about it, what will be will be.
so am just stalking you all here and watching how it goes... hopeing and wishing for bfps for all... and for the strength if its a bfn.
Cuddlepie - oh no, I'm so so sorry..I hope you're doing ok
Grub - thank you - and good luck for your natural cycle
Ruth - great to see you back here. Good luck to you for this month.
xx
CP - Take care of you my sweet... thats such a sad piece of news. I think you'll find you have to do BT anyway, they like to make sure the levels are zero?? Its really awful when you already know the results though.
Hayley - Hoping that all the fun you are having pays off very soon... and that you feel better being off the drugs for a month.
Ruth - Hope you don't get any bfn sense this round. Good luck to you over the next week and a bit.
No news here... starting to recover from exhaustion and hoping for a decent sleep tonight. No known symptoms presenting so just waiting until AF due Wed.
Just checking in. Friday night went fine and I only had a couple of small glasses of wine. Everyone else got so drunk that they didn't notice which is what I hoped would happen!!
I'm still getting cramps. It feels like it did last time I was pregnant (before I m/c). But I don't have any other symptoms yet - but again, they didn't come till week 5 before.
My chart looks ok, but i guess it could go either way. I really have no clue.
I bought a couple of HPT's today just to have in the house for over the Christmas period. AF is due friday but if I am still getting cramps, I am going to do a sneaky POAS on Christmas eve and if it is a BFP then I'm going to surprise DH on Christmas day. If not, then that is ok too, no-one else has to know!!
I'll keep you all posted!
Hope that everyone is hanging in there.
Hugs
Sue xxx
cuddlepie, janet, I am so sorry to log on and read your sad news.....I was so hoping you'd have success
afm- quick question- what's implantation bleeding like? brown dishcharge sort of thing? I have just had a little bit today...11dpo, no cramps..was expecting my period on boxing day...I am terrified of having another ectopic, after trying naturally...of course, part of me also hopes it's a hopeful sign and my head is spinning with the very thought that we might have conceived naturally. I have had slight pulling pain on the right a couple of days ago. I am going to POAS in the morning anyhow. Thanks ladies. I had honestly been cruising, well you know, sort of, through this TWW....not taking things as easy as usual etc, expecting nothing. Now I am wondering????
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jbm and cuddlepie....so sorry to hear your bad news. cuddles for you.
possums.. some people that have implantation bleeding believe it is Af coming. when i became pregnant with DD in 2004 i had no signs until i was late. for me that was day 28. my af is always early so i never get time to have my hopes raised. my signs were sore boobs. when i had bleeding this time i knew it was af. but that is my body. everyone is so different. goodluck with your wait.
sue1979, S'rose and everyone else ...goodluck with your waits
afm... i am doing some research on my next step. talked to Fs who said we will use last 2 embies next. he suggested doing another nat FET. i am not sure that this will work and want to think about doing a medicated one. if this doesnt work then i think it will be back to IUI's for us $$$$$$.....
i have found a new chinese medicine-acupuncturist and will try him in the NY. maybe it's good to have a month or so off before rushing in to things.
JBM- big hugs to you...it's a hard road, and I am sure even harder at this time of year
kittykat- thanks for your info and i hope you can decide on a good way forward for you. a month off is sometimes helpful, even though I know we all feel so impatient to get going and for it to happen!
Possums: Implant Bleeding for me x 3, was like a browny colour that you notice on your knickers, and you think af is on her way, a little when you wipe, and then you think later "that was odd"
How did you go today with your poas ? good luck x
S'rose - I hope the fatigue and sick feeling has passed you poor thing. Good luck I have my for you. Stay positive hun!
MissMagpie - Hi, I hope you're well.
Possums - I have my fingers crossed for you for a BFP!
buliej - Hi, I hope you're well.
butterflyqld - Hi hope you're well too.
Smithy - Hi honey, how are you? Thanks for your well wishes to all of us
ibb - I have my for a BFP for 2009 for you.
bella55 - Good luck hun, sorry I don't know about BT levels. I hope your levels rise though
dellydoo - Good luck for a BFP for you, this 2ww is driving me mad also!
Mels77 - Hi, hope you're well! You got the best Christmas present
JBM - I am so sorry to hear your news, look after yourself, I hope you're feeling better
Cuddlepie - I'm so sorry to hear your news, I hope you're ok.
BecD - Hi hope you're ok.
Ruth08 - Good luck, hoping for a BFP for you.
grub17 - Hi hope you're well.
sue1979 - Good luck hun, thats an awesome idea of surprising your dh for Christmas. Fingers crossed for a BFP for you.
kittycat27 - Hi, just let your FS know that you want a medicated one. It would be great to have a break, enjoy your time off.
To anyone else I have missed, good luck and bring on the BFP.
AFM - This 2ww is hard, I'm slowly going crazy. Really sore BB and the crinone is making me go nutty. Yesterday DH asked what is wrong with me. I was just not in the mood to talk to anyone, or see anyone, I felt really down and upset but I know its the crinone and I explained it to him. I've also been so fatigued, and every afternoon about 3pm I feel like I need a nanna nap but I don't, it would make me feel too old Feeling better today so far, just tired, I might go do some Christmas shopping. Waiting for my BT on Sat for a miracle.
Possums I had some brownish spotting this morning and have been to bathroom 20 times. Am thinking it is implantation and nothing else - let's stay positive honey!
love
A
Well today I nearly fell over. I POAS and there were TWO PINK LINES!!! It was such a shock and caused some excitement...I mean we'd pretty much been told IVF was our option for having a baby now, with a very very slim chance we'd ever conceive naturally. Therefore, I hadn't even been tracking my cycle very closely or anything. We were just trying naturally while we waited to resume IVF, thinking a miracle was a very big long shot.
That said, while we are excited at the prospect a miracle may have happened, we are also scared it could be ectopic, as I have a pretty high risk... Anyway, I just don't know what to think yet...too scared to let the floodgates of excitement open, especially as I know it could also be a chemical pregnancy and come to nothing, or be stuck in the tube like before.
I called my IVF nurse and she nicely offered to do a BT for me this morning, even though I am only 12 or 13DPO at this stage, so HCG wouldn't be too high so early anyway. She said it would give an indication (am worried its too early and a low reading might give cause for worry, when it might end up rising)...anyway...i guess we've been through so much, which is why all the caution and worry...but at the same time...imagine if this is our Christmas miracle??!
Janet and CP - so sorry that this was not the cycle for you both.
Possums! My heart skipped a beat when I read your post! OMG!!!!!!! I know you are trying not to get too excited, but OMG!!!! Looking forward to hearing your results.
OMG Possums, what a wonderful xmas gift it would be! I really really hope that you get the confirmation today that you are pregnant! That's the best news I've heard for a while you so deserve this hunny!
for you. Stay positive hun!
Feeling better today so far, just tired, I might go do some Christmas shopping. Waiting for my BT on Sat 
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