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Lulu,
Hun please dont give up, I hit rock bottom my last cycle to the point it was a very scarey place as I sat after doing 2 HPT on a Saturday and got BFN's I went to the BT on monday and when they called me back to say Congrats I said No No I have tested and it said no and she said well I can tell you different and that was a DPO 14 Hcg of 180 so it wasnt low it just took its time getting there.
Hope this is the case with you.
Bec
Goodmorning all you lovely ladies (or good afternoon as Lulu will point out!!)
Hope everyone has wonderful weekends planned. I'm lying in bed waiting for this lovely pessary to do its work before my day begins. Will hopefully chat to you all over the weekend. I know I'm going to need it tomorrow. Monday is D day.So excited but also petrified. Am going to POAS today so we'll see how that goes. Didn't do it last cycle at all, but you ladies have corrupted me. I feel like I'm missing out with all this POAS business going on!!
Tish- how are you feeling today? Did you have a good rest yesterday afternoon? I hope you are keeping your spirits up and are staying really positive
Bec- I hope the dry retching is a sign of good things to come...I felt really nauseous last night but I'm certain it was the fish and chips I ate!! Damn it!
Lovely Lulu- Please don't feel sad. I really believe there are way too many different variables at this stage that could influence the strength of that damn pink line. I am absolutley freaking about doing this POAS today myself, cause I just don't want to lose hope. But please don't you lose hope. You know better than any of us Dr Lulu that it's far to early to make any call yet. Stay strong. I am here for you. AND you'd better be enjoying your pampering today. Bug hugs
I'll chat to you all through the day
Hugs to eveyone
all right how many have given in to POAS?....LOL!!I wish I could as well!!!!!! only 5 days post transfer probably a tad early for me, I hate the waiting game.
how are your weekends progressing I've been so lazy it's not funny started by sleeping in till 10:30 (which is totally unheard of for me) Have been cruising around the house it is a hot sticky day in Tassie (don't fall over in shock) have hung out 3 loads of washing about to have lunch and on my way to fold way too much more.
Ok so I hate the POAS. HATE HATE HATE. A BFN for me. I know it could be too early and even the clinic told me that but I just wanted to be able to relax and enjoy my weekend. And I've got some pains again. Just want all these mind games over. I'm still trying really hard to be positive but I have to admit I just had another big cry.
Lulu- sorry I didn't see you online before. Are you doing ok? If it's too early for me to get a BFP than it's too early for you too..we have to be positive together. Let me know how you are going
Blizz- washing for me too. How can 2 people create so much washing??!! And don't give in to the POAS. I wish I hadn't now
Oh girls, don't loose hope:hugs: d@mn that POAS urge
I'm so scared..I hate this
come on Bel stay with us!!!! try to think positive thoughts and I'll keep my fingers crossed :crossfingers:for a great result for you sweety:hug:
Thanks Blizz, I'm just having a real down day. Am so scared of the dreaded BFN arriving on Monday
Bel and Lulu big :hug: :hug: - hang in there !!! Remember sometimes those silly POAS don't register for some girls til way late. Thinking of you both.
Good morning everyone, would you believe it's morning and I'm awake!!??
So this morning I did another POAS even though I told myself I wouldn't and guess what?-another BFN..AAAAHHHH!! I know it may not register yet, I get all that, but I soooo wanted a BFP cause the wait tomorrow is going to be agony. So everyone had better be ready for me tomorrow!! How's everyone else going? Any exciting plans for today?
Deni- Thanks for the kind words. Last time I was pg the line on the test I did was so so faint no-one would confirm it either way without a BT. So I still remain hopeful
Lulu- How are you feeling today? Did you POAS? I hope you had a relaxing night and are feeling a bit better today. I wish I could help you... will chat soon
Have decided that if I get the dreaded BFN tomorrow am going to ask to see my FS on Tues to talk about my treatment. I'm on a HRT cycle this month and I don't really understand fully why I'm on it. I assume it's beacuse my AF is so irregular, they are trying to mimic a normal cycle. But I have learnt from my counsellor that I'm allowed to ask questions about my treatment, so that's exactly what I'm going to do. 2 weeks ago I had 6 embies frozen and my FS said to me "don't worry, you'll get a pregnancy out of this lot of embies" Now with only 2 left, I'm not so sure. So the list of questions begins. Hopefully tomorrow I can throw my list out and celebrate instead BUT I am planning for the worst.
Have a great Sunday everyone. Relax and spoil yourself!!
Hugs to all
good for you Bel!!... it does pay to ask questions, if only to help you understand what they do, after all it is your body,you should have some say in whats being done to it.
good luck with POAS tomorrow I really hope for a BFP for you (would even settle for a little faint positive) all the best sweets
Hi All
Hope your day has been good and there are no signs of the dreaded AF. I've had a very busy day in front of the TV!!
Tomorrow is the dreaded BT day for me. To be perfectly honest, I'm petrified. Have done 2 BFN POAS's. I know it could still a BFP for me but I don't hold too much hope now. My poor mum keeps copping the breakdowns...Was doing ok today til she called and then it was all over. So I put myself to bed for a couple of hours this afternoon to try and clear my head. I just hate the emotional rollercoaster.
I'll let you all know how it goes tomorrow.
Have a good night all and stay positive and strong
Hugs Bel
Hi Guys,
Well after yesterdays horrendous meltdown, am feeling a little better today.
Another POAS done today and my Pregnyl line is almost gone..but sadly nothing kicking in there to replace it. Yes ofcourse I will do yet another tomorrow, but alas I am pretty sure I know the result.
Bel - hang in there buddy...I've also had the most busy of days infront of the tv.
I hope you're all ok..thanks for the support...and please please can someone do better then me please..
Hi All
I have been keeping a bit of a low profile these days. Trying not to focus on the fact that I have an embbie on board in order to maintain a bit of sanity in the event it is another BFN. Today is 6dpt so 9dpo and as yet have felt completely normal.
Who knows? I am just trying not to analyse every twinge this time. I figure if it is meant to be it will be.
Only have 3 frozen left and I don't think the quality is amazing - so FS just said to work through them. I have a strong suspicion I will be having to go through another stim cycle though. To make it worse its not just the BFN's its the BFN's in the bank account that are starting to really be felt......
Anyway enough of my whinge this morning.
Good luck to all. I am not really up on who is testing when so for those this week best of luck !
Bel,
Wishing you all the luck in the world today:pray:.
Good sign AF has stayed away.
Lulu: Give it a couple of days love, although the pregnyl lines have gone it isnt long ewnough for the HCG lines to appear:lol:
Me: well I am hoping to test tomorow, I cant believe I have gone 10 days without.
I am so unsure of what it will say not feeling pregnant but then not feeling that AF is on her way:rolleyes:.
Very sensitive to smells atm another one of my symtoms that will disappear as soon as a BFN appears.
I'm chatty today LOL cause I am at work with no patients so I'll be killing some time in here today!!:cryinglaugh:
Good luck Bec G - how exciting.
I am never as strong as you - I always test 9 days post as that usually gives me an accurate indication.....
thinking of you.
Oooh now I am thinking about ducking into the chemist and doing it at work:p.When I did IVF first time around I usually tested from day 5 LOL, it might be the tight ar$e in me this time that is making me patient..or I love the fact that I dont know and still can pretend. I dont want to have another one of those embarassing situations with the IVF nurse questioning her bt results because my stupid POAS said negative and she was telling me it was positive.:D
Waiting: are in the land of limbo :)?
Bec
Told you I'd be chatty LOL
Best of luck Waiting1...fingers crossed for you this month..
Bec - Don't you just hate those imaginary symptoms?? I had such bad heartburn last week (not imaginary) but ofcourse it disappeared over the weekend. I am very impressed you have gone 10days without testing...good for you. When is your BT brave girl..??
FRIDAY!!!:dance:
But really I had trigger on the Tues so add 24-36 hrs for O, so tomorrow is day 13ish I think..transfer was done on the Friday. So when does anyone know if AF going to show is it from trans or trigger?
I was saying to another BB girl the other day if this works first go back I am going to be so embarrased my family and friends are going to wonder why it took 4yrs to get our first BFP
LOL spewey watery mouth..another one of my imaginary symptoms. Starting to think I actually might be, of course that makes it harder when it isnt...stop thinking about it Rebecca. Better go and do some work :)
Hi girls I'm joining you on the imaginary symptoms, actually tho I think it's due to my latest Pregnyl 1000 injection this morning - has anyone else felt a little upset in the tummy after one of those? I don't usually but this morning I'm feeling a bit strange in there. Must be the sudden boost of hcg that's doing it. Other than that, I have fleeting depressing moments of "AF feeling" without the cramps or anything, just that general blah feeling. Got to push out the negative thoughts!!!! - I've got a whole week til my BT :(
Best wishes to all ... :grouphug:
Man - we are all so sad...
bec - i dont know how you do it?? There is just no way I could hold out.
FYI - I buy the POAS on the net - soooooooo much cheaper then the chemist.....
no point doing it anyway till tomorrow morning when you can use first wee of the day... OMG - I wonder if you are???? how exciting.
Deni - poor thing...I had my last Pregnyl Thursday and my POAS line today is now back to nada...and no real PG line replacing it...You got the Pregnyl in your system for another 4-5days sweet...and yes it makes you have fake PG signs - sore BB, I have also had nausea from them in the past...they are awful.
Bel - sleep well princess...
Nah still at work, no testing for me.
Demi: I have every symptom my boobs are sore because I keep on pressing on them, prob sick from eating lollies and well the rest is all in my head
Minnie: I am scared they are going to give me false answers! Will do one and if it looks goodish will splurge and buy what I call a real one LOL
My boss just came in to talk about a "partnership"in the business didnt have the heart to tell him that he will have to wait till next week before I will discuss anything made up some silly story to put him off the scent.
Bec
Yeah I still have the sore BB as well - but know its still that nightmare Pregnyl for me.
Bec - what do u mean if it looks good you'll splurge on a real one? You have the internet ones? I think the Pregnow are brilliant as so sensitive. Give me the inside goss please.....
There should be some in my post box right now if the postie is doind his job:lol:
I have heard that pregnow are known to give false positives, I just googled it incase I was thinking of another brand and it was that one. Whether it be evap lines, LOL I will still give it a go tomorrow if there is a line another test will be done:cryinglaugh:
Bec
ahhh a woman after my own heart. I have to say...I have found Pregnow 100% accurate for me in the past. Because they are quite sensitive, when I did actually get PG - they picked it up about day 8 or 9 after a 3day embie transfer (no Pregnyl that cycle only pessaries) and got darker each day. It always picks up the Pregnyl - but like now fades out when its out of my system. Have never had a falsie with them and have had several transfers now...(sadly). Goodluck for tomorrow Ms B...
Bec, the Aust post is never realiable when you desperately need them...that's what happen to me, but the best way to control our POAS obssession anyway...
I start having nightmares of struggling with POAS desire already, it will be a hard few days...
May work take my mind off this...:lol:
Guee if his hasnt left them, I will be driving around looking for him tomorrow with my specimen jar ready to dunk:cryinglaugh:
I am even a little cheeky I have forgotten to bring any sanitary products:redface:to work, I guess if AF appears I will have to ask the girls.
I hate work but hate the 2ww more LOL
thats not cheeky - thats positive thinking and I like it!!!!
So i hate to break the news to your boss - if you hate work...i guess he ain't gonna be getting any partnership soon huh?
Hi ladies, can I join you?
I had a blasto FET on the 11th. I was due for a visit from AF yesterday and feeling uber confused because on the last 5 fertility treatments she arrived on the 17th of the month, even with Crinone. Now it's the 18th and I'm feeling a bit menstrual (unusal for me with no actual AF). Also caved and got a BFN on the POAS on Saturday morning.
Going completely insane and I can't believe I still have to wait a whole week more (BT 25th)
Sounds like I'm not alone in this insanity. God this is torture!
Hi Kate and welcome...
Sounds a bit early for AF?? was this a fresh cycle??
Goodluck hun...fingers crossed...!!!!!
Hi Kate
And all the beautiful ladies......
I am too having my BT on the 25th..... i am ususally due a few days before my testand hoping the same as you...NO AF.
I missed out last FET and this will be our 4th go... I am sooo anxious that this is doing my head in................................................ .......Kate do you have any symptoms?? mY Fs said i wont have any yet and probably wont until after the BT.....I feel better she said that as i have none, wondering if you do? Or does anyone??? Or should I????
Hi Carla,
Most people dont have any symptoms yet (mostly imaginary). Some get early signs like sore BB, maybe some heartburn. I know I got strange pains - many get these.
Anyway - not point over-analysing (says I who is currently feeling up her BB).
Goodluck!!!
No symptoms that aren't also on the Crinone side affects leaflet. Had a headache yesterday which apparently can be a early pg sign. But I'm pretty sure the heavy tummy feeling is not - more like AF.
WOW you girls were quick..thankyou so much.....
I have sore BB's too.........I had crinone last FET and nothing at allthis time round......was natural FET....didnt even need pregestorone support.....which i guess is good but would have liked some just incase......anyway....I am slowly going insane....in tears all morning...my poor DH is copping the lot, i feel I have been so horrible to him and i dont mean to be.............
Minnimouse...how soon did they get those symptoms.....I have BT on Monday...think I'll get any as soon as now???:wall:
Carla my sweet...just relax..(yeah yeah I know its impossible)..seriously, most people dont get any..so having none doesn't mean a thing.
I had my own meltdown Saturday - so you're not alone there. Believe me when I tell you we all go thru it.
Hi All!
I have been away for ages getting all ready for (fingers crossed). Had my FET today and it was a bit of an emotional experience! My HPT is due 27/02/08. Freaking out!
Hi everyone..
Hardly slept last night. Tried to sleep today but no luck. Am waiting for the dreaded call. I know what it will be but just need to hear it. Hopefully will have an answer really soon.
Fingers crossed for you all. You have a been such amazing support for me. I am so glad to have found you all.
Lulu- you have been a blessing to me. Truly. Don't know how to thank you.xx
Will let you know soon everyone
Hugs Bel :pray:
Best of luck Dellydoo.....
Bel - we're all here for you princess...you'll be ok no matter what!!! hmmm maybe a visit to sydney is in order..??
Oh sweets - I am sending you the warmest thoughts.
Good Luck sweetheart
dellydoo
xxx:pray: