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Good luck to everyone this month and wishing you all BFPs!!!
Lyra, Neptune and Where there's hope that's fantastic news. We really needed it in here. I hope you all make it safe and sound through to happy, healthy pregnancies.
Possums, I'm so so sorry for you. I hope you have all the support and comfort that you need to come through this. I'm thinking of you.
I have 1 embie on board. BT on 13/3 (Friday the 13th!!!) My FS wanted to put 2 in but of the 4 eggs they collected, only 1 made it. Ive only produced 2 embies from 10 eggs. So Im really hoping this is the one! Im feeling alot more positive and relaxed this time as Ive been doing acupuncture so have felt that has helped me alot.
Greenslw - Good luck for today. Await your news.
Mollygirl - sorry to hear your news. I can totally understand where you are coming from.
Lots of Look forward to spending the next 2 weeks with everyone here.
Well i got the official BFN today from the clinic.
DH and i are both feeling very flat at the moment - i know we will find the strength to continue but sometimes it just seems so unfair.
Hope there has been some good news today. Murph wasn't your BT today?
Loula, i know you feel you are out too but i will think positive thoughts anyway until Bt is confirmed
Everyone else in TWW hope you can bring some better news to the forum this month.
enjoy every moment as it will go so fast.
document everything and keep things, even if you don't think they are important at the time.
they will be later on.
this is a very special and truly wonderful time.
enjoy every second of it.
michelle
CONGRATULATIONS Murph! Hope you have a healthy pregnancy
It must have been such a hard decision to make not go to the funeral but it was all worth it in the end. Sorry to hear about your friends loss. Lots of mixed emotions for you at the moment.
Loula - sorry to hear your news. Hope all goes well with your NP and see you back in here soon. Take care.
Buggirl - hopefully that spot of blood is due to implantation. Have heard it can happen around this time. Hang in there.
AFM, still have a head cold and feeling very average but am still at work. Im worried that being sick will affect implantation. I also wanted to know how people coped with getting BT results while at work? I was going to ask for next Friday afternoon off but have just realised that 2 other people will be away that day and I work in a small office of only 10 people. We're already 1 person down due to 1 of the girls being on maternity leave. Im a very emotional person and reacted not very well last time when I found out I had a small reading. I had already gotten AF when they called with the result so knew I wasnt pg. Im trying not to think of the worst but am preparing myself just in case. Any advice would be great. Thanks girls.
I too went to work on the day of my BT (first IVF cycle) I had to be be there because we had an important meeting on and I couldnt miss it. I was such an emotional wreck by the time the meeting finished and I ended up leaving work early (I have a very understanding boss) and I luckily didnt get my results till I got home in the afternoon (gave me time to have a good cry and relax watch some crap TV). This time I am going to call in a sickie cos I just couldnt handle being at work, infact I feel like calling in a sickie now!!
Is there anyway you can leave early perhaps? I would only go to work for as long as you can handle it, emotionally its just not worth it - and if your workmates dont know trying to explain why your upset (which I hope you wont be!! ) will compound everything. Also how effective is anybody when they are acutely stressed!!
Everyone in my office knows. I work in a small, open plan office so a bit hard to keep it a secret. I totally agree with the productive side of things. I was going to leave at 1pm but it would still put pressure on the rest of the office for the afternoon. All I can do is speak to my boss and tell him and see what he says. I have cried lots in the office so far with my cycles so they understand. But as usual, Im always thinking about work!
I too ended up leaving early last time when the clinic called to say I had a reading. I was a total mess!
My boss is very strange. He's known about IVF before I even started. Gave him reading material from the clinic which was especially for employers yet he has been very casual about it. When I went for my egg collection, he said good luck and he hasnt said anything since! I dont want to keep going on about it but it would be nice if he was more sympathetic and understanding about it all. After all, Ive been here for 19 years!!!
sorry Loula and Mollygirl that it was not your turn this month.
a bug congrats to Murph let's hope that BOB is on a winning streak this month!!!! i think it is my turn for a
MissMagpie, i totally understand how you feel about your boss. i get a bit like that with my friends when they don't ask about my treatments or TTC in general.
i don't think it is done on purpose, but certain people just don't know how to go about asking personalquestions and feel they may upset you if they ask the wrong one.
you need to put yourself first and not your job. i know that is hard but you are way more important then any job. i found i was worried about my work too much. i fixed that by quiting!! i know i am lucky as not everyone has that choice.
Sorry to hear your boss has been so unsupportive - and I guess in an open plan office its difficult to hide these things.
I'm wondering about the whole "who do you tell" thing, with our first try I told lots of people but found it devastating that I then had to tell them all we weren't successful. This time with our first FET I have told no one!! What have other people done? Do you have a strategy for dealing with this?
Hello everyone,
thank you all so much for all your thoughts, messages and congrats. Each wish is like a bit of borrowed hope that pushes me to believe that this might just work out. I will have to leave this thread now but couldn't go without thanking you all and wishing you all well in your own personal journeys.
Kittycat... I reckon Dr Bob and the progesterone overload did the trick...I'm on three forms of it!! oh and the accupuncture. For me to register now after never ever before, I'd say my problem is the progesterone. Good luck with your treatment!
MisssMagpie, I've known my own Dad for 35 years (strangely enough) and the poor bugger didn't have a clue what to do when it came to IVF so we had a huge talk. I write him updates every week so that he never has to wonder and feel out of the loop. we have to understand these poor silly males, they don't know what to say. they care but they don't want to risk saying the wrong thing. Dad said, "what would I say..."good luck" and I told him that would be fine. I know what he means and I know he's interested in what we are going through. Anyway, maybe your boss cares too, maybe you could talk to him about why he doesn't ask.
Well, thanks again for all your support. I'll be thinking of you all.
Hope you all had a lovely weekend (and the Monday if you were in a State with a day off!) Any news?
Well today is 10dp5dt (15dpo) and I'm getting antsy. I am still having cramping (which has been non stop since transfer) and yesterday and today my lower back was sore so am convinced its af I was out and about the whole day on Sunday enjoying WOMAD so was sitting on the ground a lot (and I have a small bulge in a disc in my lower back so hoping that its the reason for my backache).
I did a POAS on sat night and it came up positive (within 3-5 min very faint but definitely there) - got excited but FMU on Sun was negative with same brand from the same box, wth? I'm hoping the -ve was because I was so thirsty though on Sat night I drank heaps of water and peed about 4 times during the night, but have been too scared to test since.
LTTTC Two Week Wait - Feb/Mar 2009
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to everyone.
CONGRATS to all those with there bfps
i hope you all have some wonderful news soon
Lyra, Neptune and Where there's hope that's fantastic news. We really needed it in here. I hope you all make it safe and sound through to happy, healthy pregnancies. 
I'm thinking of you.
Thanks for all the good vibes
) will compound everything. Also how effective is anybody when they are acutely stressed!!
let's hope that BOB is on a winning streak this month!!!! i think it is my turn for a 
I was out and about the whole day on Sunday enjoying WOMAD so was sitting on the ground a lot (and I have a small bulge in a disc in my lower back so hoping that its the reason for my backache).
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