thread: LTTTC Two Week Wait - Oct/Nov 08

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  1. #1
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    Nov 2007
    Country Vic - West of Ballarat
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    Thanks for your thoughts girls, DH was probably more disappointed than I was as we had 1 transferred this time with at least something and this time our 2 gave us nothing.

    At least AF has already arrived, and boy is she painful. I'm now just waiting for my clinic to call me back to see if we can go ahead with another FET straight away. Hopefully we can, or else it will not be until January which is just too far away to consider.

    Possums: I hope you are taking care of yourself. It is so sad to get a BFN after the TWW, but to be in your position must be so hard to understand. I hope your little angel is looking out for your future bubs and becomes their 'Guardian Angel'.

    Millymoo: Looking out for you, hope you are doing o.k and that things are promising.

    Everyone else: Thinking of you all

  2. #2
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    Oct 2008
    Sydney
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    Hi All

    Well I am officially out of the game. My HCG came back as 7 so BFN for me. I am actually OK. I was petrified I was going to have to have a d&C so it is actually a relief in a small way. My progesterone is still really high so it will probably be another wek before the AF from hell arrives but hey ho (gees this is one expensive AF!!!).

    Small glimmer of hope is that I got a little further with this one so fingers crossed number 4 will be the one..... I have no frosties so i will probably be trying just before Christmas.

    Good luck to everyone else still to go my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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    Millymoo, I am so sorry, I know how this hurts. But sounds like you have a plan and are already looking forward. Will pray that the next cycle is a dream cycle for you with a BFP at the end, the best Christmas present ever. Take care. xx

  4. #4
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    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
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    Kelly and Millymoo- sorry this wasnt your turn. I hope you are OK, it can be so hard.

    Good luck to everyone else in here...

    also thanks again for your thoughts to me....I am home resting after my curette...looks like we can't resume IVF until start of Jan (due to waiting for natural period now, and the xmas closure of clinic etc), which seems a long time away

  5. #5
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    Jan 2008
    Brissy
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    hi all.
    Millymoo: next time, all we can do is keep moving forward. so sorry. hugs to you
    lnb: count down to testing. nearly half way.
    kelly: so sorry this wasn't the one, nast af, don't we hate her ? yes we do !!

    afm: well i had acupuncture today and it went well, she said she thought it was going well and i am certainly in a good place at the moment mentally.
    so i would be day 28 on tue which would have been when af would have been due so if no af by then then i'll be testing next wednesday the 29th, i just can't last any longer than that. i am officially not supposed to test until the 1st and that would be a 18 embie, why do you have to wait that long anyway ?!

    chat to all soon, sending lots of & &
    hoping to hear some BFP in here soon.

  6. #6
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    May 2008
    Sydney, Australia
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    Hello lovely girls

    Thanks fro your kind thoughts, I am feeling better now. Seeing the IVF doc next week to discuss the next step, however we have decided to try naturally in the meantime so that we feel like we are 'doing' something. Plus, you never know your luck in the big city! So may be back in the 2WW before too long

    To Azzenrae, KellyD, Milliemoo and possums I'm sorry. Thinking of you.

    Good luck to everyone else

  7. #7
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    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
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    Hey everyone,

    I'm a 1st time IVFer and TWWer with a 6 day emby hopefully hatching and attaching as we speak! Who would have thought I could join a club?
    Hi Murph, welcome. There is a thread on all the abbreviations... can't remember where it is but I am sure the mod can direct you with it.

    Well, the results are in and as anticipated it was a BFN. Bit bummed but hopefully AF will show her ugly head in the next couple of days.
    Oh Kelly, I am so sorry. I was off all day (DH wants me to relax) but I was very keen to find out your BT results. I like your positivity. After a number of years of TTC and 1 year of IVF I still cry every time I get a BFN. That goes for you to Milly

    I'm on day 7 after my embryo transfer and today have light pink spotting (i guess it is). I'm taking crinone pessaries and applicators so I can't get a clear description. Is this the implantation spotting I hear about? I'm new at IVF but not at all new at TTC!
    Murph, it really depends on what embie you had transfered, day 3 or day 5. It could be implantation or spotting caused by the crinone.

    Possum, I am very saddened by your news, it must be heart breaking for you.

    AFM: Had my transfer yesterday. The embie survived the thaw so we have 4 frosties left. I know I should not think about the next cycle but after one hard year, can't help preparing myself for the worse. I was suppose to have my transfer on Sunday but the clinic doesn't work on Sunday, so they thaw the embie on Monday morning... now that got me scared, wondering whether they had given the embie enough time to ensure that it would survive the thaw properly.... I am over working myself, ain't I?

    Take care everyone... and good luck to us all, those on our TWW... Bring the BFP on!

  8. #8
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    Oct 2008
    Melbourne
    97

    Hi Everyone -

    I'm sure there are more than 14 days in the TWW - how can time go so slowly in the TWW and fly by the rest of the time?

    Ruth- hope you are doing okay and hanging in there

    JBM - sticky vibes and baby dust for you

    Bel - hope you are okay and out of hospital and at home taking care of yourself and embies. for a BFP for you

    Yvette - hope you are okay, haven't seen you post in a while (or sorry if I missed it!)

    Millymoo - sorry to hear your news. Sounds like you have a good plan. Take care of yourself.

    Neptune - great to hear you are back with a plan. My girlfriend was on IVF for many many cycles, they took time off and BD and were pg that month .

    BDT - how are you doing today? Thinking of you.

    Kahlan - welcome to the TWW - sticky vibes for your new embie on board.

    Sorry if I have forgotten anyone. Sending loads of sticky vibes and baby dust to everyone and that this is all our time for a BFP.

    Take care,
    LNB