Don't know the answer on the "how long after a transfer can you have a FET?" - but good question and I can't believe I have not been asking it! Think I am too hooked up thinking about this week.

In regards to taking panadol and stuff - I don't know - I have been so strict on the "act as though you are pg" and not eaten anything on the list and certainly not drinking! I know in "real life" most ladies would have been "baby dancing / horizontal folk dancing / whatever you want to call it" during the last month and could be drinking as normal not even knowing what may be forming inside and all works out OK. But with everything we are putting ourselves through, I am taking every precaution necessary. Have not had a drink for about 10 weeks now. Generally this is OK & not so hard - but dinner at friends on Sat night, good food, good company & fantastic wine - and I just had to sit there and say no! Grrrrr!! So hard!!! This better work I tell ya!!!