Hi Beibei

just before my EPU my 21 year old sister told me she was pregnant, unplanned. She is having problems with her husband and was threatening leaving him, she got pregnant while they made up. I congratulated her and apologised for my lack of happiness. I walked out and started to hyperventilate and than broke down in tears. I cried for 2 whole days. I emailed her the next day on how I felt and how sad I was. She really upset me as she knew what my husband and I were going through and that it was my only dream being the eldest to have the first born in the family. I also told her that I knew it was not an accident as she apparently has been begging her husband for a baby but he was not ready. I am only 25 and I was not asking her to hold for too long, I had a lot of anger and was very disappointment with her. Over the week though I got over it, It has happened, she was blessed with a bubz and I have to respect the precious thing in her. I called her last night and requested to have a coffee and to mend our broken hearts.
Its very hard for us TTC buddies, but I think its harder for then to give us what is suppose to be their happiest news. Beibei, I am sure as your conversations progress, you will want to know everything that she is experiencing, it will give you positive vibes.