Jo - You're right. Its better if I dont make the decision & its made for me. I will call them tomorrow. Thanks for your opinion. Its great that you are going away, you get to the point you need to remove yourself from the situation & get back to basics.

We have a farm up the coast & DH just left to go there with his mate to check the cows etc. We needed that. I need to miss him & he needs a break from my snappy mouth. Oh the progesterone! He just called & said he misses me already - sweet but I dont know what he's missing cos I have been grumpy! Im going to kick back all weekend with the girls. Looking forward to it. A night of sleeping like a starfish, yeah!