I definitely don't want triplets either! and if I was under 38, I'd be much more conservative about the number of embryos. I really do believe that as you approach 40 ...and beyond (I will be 42 in Dec), things are quite different than they are for younger women struggling with this issue. and the clock is really ticking for over 40's...

I find everyone's opinion and input quite interesting! thanks for all the replies.