I still don't even connect Mother's Day with myself, to me it's about my mum!
DH said he can't get me anything as we will just be returned from overseas at 1am on Mother's Day - and they don't have shops in the UK apparently ROFL.......last year he was overseas at his dad's funeral so I was home alone with a 3 month old, fun.....actually, it's pretty lucky I have no Mother's Day expectations lol

Yep, infertility/IVF wrecks a lot of holidays/ special days, but you have to just accept it, like being single on valentines day I guess ( but possibly a bit worse)