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thread: no more :(

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    no more :(

    I AM DONE

    no more trying and hoping,
    no more crossing fingers,
    no more praying,
    at this point (not even more doctors, they clearly have doen nothing so far)

    I AM SICK OF EVERYTHING !!!!

    I cant take another person telling me THEY ARE PG i am up to 13 ppl in 12 months i cant take it.....

    Many people say cheer up not having a baby is not the end of the world well you know what u clueless ****s IT IS THEN END OF MINE!! i am so over it all, i cant take it anymore

    I AM GOING TO CRAWL UP IN A BALL AND PRAY FOR THIS STAGE OF MY LIFE TO BE OVER MAYBE WAKE UP IN 5 YEARS ....I HATE IT ALL!!!!

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Sep 2010
    North West Victoria, Australia
    3,003

    Oh, honey.


    Wish I could say something to help, but just wanted to send a hug

  3. #3

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    cous, please please please don't give up, follow through with the Drs and everything PLEASE.
    God I wish I was closer!


    Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
    5,039

    Oh god your pain is so raw. I am so sorry you are surrounded by idiots that don't understand.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    I wsh you were closer to cus..... there is nothin worse than feeling like this when all my friends are out of town and russ has gone out ....i amjust gunna have a cry and a sleep .... dont see the point in following through with docs for what i am NEVER GUNNA GET MY BFP.......

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    Bellabee...I'm not going to tell you that you will get your bfp, because I just don't know that. But I am going to urge you not to give up. There is hope. For nearly two years I truly believed my destiny was to either never fall pregnant, or to lose every pregnancy I was blessed with. I now have a 5 month old daughter

  7. #7

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    I'm here if you need me, you have my number right?
    I wish I had the answers


    Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    2,251

    Hugs hun, Don't give up.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jan 2010
    504

    Don't give up. Like the other ladies here, I so understand your pain. It's a hard journey and one that shouldn't be so very hard. It's so unfair, so very unfair that we can't have babies as easily as others can. I hope you find the strength to keep going, please remember that people around you love you and wish they could make your dreams come true too, it's just hard to find the right words

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
    8,065

    massive one of these

    it hurts. it just frikkin' hurts and i am sorry that you are having to experience this pain

  11. #11

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    The other thing i wanted to say hun is USE BB, it's here for this sort of thing, to talk to people going through the same things as yourself, people who know how you feel.
    I know i don't 'GET IT'like someone who has been through it but i've seen the pain it causes some of the most beautiful people i know, i've seen how it's turned another relative into someone i never thought he would be, so while i don't get it i'm here to lend an ear and for you to know that i will listen, i wont judge and i love you more than you know.

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    4,895

    I'm so sorry for all of your pain. I won't tell you not to give up b/c only you know when is the time to stop and start living a somewhat 'normal' life again. Please vent to us, it will help xx

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
    15,272

    Bella I know we haven't met but i believe you live local. If you want to talk to someone who gets it I'm here. If having dd around will make you uncomfy DH can take her to the park or something. I'm sure zf will attest, we have an open house policy. If you need an ear I'm a good listener, I promise!

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    ttake a break and do somethign just for yourselves right now

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Nov 2011
    SE Melbourne
    2,975

    it's awful when you just feel like that's enough. I hate that feeling. So sorry you feel that way - hope you get a chance to do something nice for yourselves as a couple.
    lots of people on here sending 's your way
    xxx

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Jul 2011
    victoria
    79

    hey yeah briggsys girl i do live local...a get together would be great i am going to go INSANE if i dont talk to someone face to face that understands where i am coming from

  17. #17

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
    8,538

    If you like girls I can pm BG your name in FB and you can add each other.
    So glad you have someone to chat to in my absence.
    Will let you know if I'm down over x-mas and hopefully we can catch up.


    Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
    15,272

    Good idea zf!

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