One does not simply... get pregnant

**RhiChiChi** · February 2nd, 2013, 06:48 AM

I've heard people falling pg after having a one night stand... Could be an issue if you want the same father for your children ;p

**little_O** · February 2nd, 2013, 06:55 AM

I've heard people falling pg after having a one night stand... Could be an issue if you want the same father for your children ;p

Might be a slight dilemma....

**Honeybee** · February 2nd, 2013, 11:09 AM

Best of luck madb! It's always worth a shot! I am thinking of trying something similar when I can get af to come back. You never know! I second the acupuncture, I think it helped me. Never tried herbs or anything. Are you considering AC in the future, or is it natural or nothing?

**onthefly** · February 2nd, 2013, 02:29 PM

We have 2 embryos on ice. The plan was to use them within first half of the year, then get on with life either with or without baby #3. (trying to feel zen and ok with it.....) So we'll give this a go for a few months, with no expectation that it will work anyway, then thaw, then....

**RhiChiChi** · February 2nd, 2013, 06:56 PM

GL I hope baby number three is announced soon x

**~TT40~** · February 2nd, 2013, 08:20 PM

good luck with it!

**Footsteps** · February 2nd, 2013, 08:30 PM

Iv been trying for over 2 years and am starting IVF soon...anybodys ideas would be appreciated x

**blackduckies** · February 2nd, 2013, 08:41 PM

Tell him you find caffeine-less men a real turn on.

lol great idea..
i reckon don't do anything special there are many long time TTCers out there who would tell you when they had stopped actively trying they fell pregnant, the more you moniter a cycle the more obsessed you get with what is working and what is'nt...
when you should have sex & when you did'nt, there is nothing more awful than starting to dislike sex!!!
I say if YOU (not your DP, DF, DH) feel interested your body probablly is at an optimal time & yes relaxing, holidays having fun all help...we have friends who adopted a baby after 15years of marriage & trying then they feel pregnant themselves there is 18months between their boys, she thinks the pressure was off they got their baby & the stress relief was instant for her & she started to enjoy life again..wishing you all the best for a happy, fun, life.

**Honeybee** · February 3rd, 2013, 07:40 AM

I hope it happens naturally for you madb, that would be lovely. Nice to know that you have two frostiness to try with later if plan a doesn't work. It would be so nice if it was easier, want baby, have sex a few times, get pregnant, have baby. Hard to believe that this is how it actually is for most people!

**onthefly** · February 3rd, 2013, 10:23 AM

Yeah! Imagine having a FREE baby?!

**~TT40~** · February 3rd, 2013, 10:26 AM

That would be the dream!!

I was chatting to a mum at playgroup about how much it cost to have Spock (more than our house deposit). She laughed and said her daughter (who is a day older) only cost her a 6-pack of bundy...

**Ladylove** · February 3rd, 2013, 10:36 AM

That would be the dream!!

I was chatting to a mum at playgroup about how much it cost to have Spock (more than our house deposit). She laughed and said her daughter (who is a day older) only cost her a 6-pack of bundy...

ROFL!

**RhiChiChi** · February 3rd, 2013, 07:22 PM

That would be the dream!!

I was chatting to a mum at playgroup about how much it cost to have Spock (more than our house deposit). She laughed and said her daughter (who is a day older) only cost her a 6-pack of bundy...

I believe it too.....

**Mildez** · February 3rd, 2013, 08:07 PM

I have everything crossed for you that you do simply get pregnant this time. Goodluck

**Ladylove** · February 7th, 2013, 08:58 PM

Me too- baby dust aplenty for you madB.

**onthefly** · February 14th, 2013, 07:49 PM

I'm just annoyed..
So, I know of course it wouldn't work straight away or anything (or at all, really), but usually I get EWCM and other signs that *something* is happening, but this cycle - with pins and herbs on board - there's nothing! I should just call the clinic and get it over with. grump.