Ok, thanks ladies. I think I can do it without the support, but after so many BFNs I feel like if I don't take some sort of support for a piece of mind, I might get another you know what (hate even writing that word). I know I am doubting my body's ability to get that little embie to stick I know my body can do it. It did almost 5 years ago with my DS, which was a FET cycle without any support, but as I'm so much older now maybe my body could use a bit of help??? I'm just scared the out of date pessaries can do some sort of unnecessary damage....