Hi Samantha,

I think we are all experiencing similar things at different levels - that is why I find Belly Belly such a great place. There are some great women out here who can really help - or in the least just listen. I've found it really hard to talk to people who don't have the concept of what PCOS can do to our self-image, as well as our health and well-being.

One more suggestion regarding metformin, you may be able to get the extended release formula ( releases metformin slowly so you don't get as many side effects). It's called Diabex XR 500mg. You may be able to take the 3 tablets at dinner. May be worth talking to your GP about it (your GP should be able to swap you to this formula).

Also, this may be the last thing you want to hear, but it does help to stress less. Stress produces cortisol which in turn upsets your hormones. I used to have a very stressful job, long hours, driving 3 hrs daily in peak traffic, poor diet, no exercise. Since then I have started part-time work close to home, have cut out (mostly) processed and sugary foods and eat more fruit and veggies. I'm not good with sticking to exercise routines, but I do take my dog for a 1 hr walk daily or 2-3 20 minute walks. This has really helped me feel better and also to shed some weight. I am not overweight to start off with, so it was harder to lose the belly fat.

You are very lucky to have such a supportive partner and are also quite young which means treatment would be more successful with you. I am a very firm supporter of believing in oneself to achieve your goals. The medical profession refer to it as "self-hypnosis" to heal. Try telling yourself every morning and night that you can do this, your body can do this and that you and your body are capable of having a healthy, beautiful baby. Sub-conciously you will be sending electric signals to your brain to "fix" the hormone problem. I used to be skeptical (initially it does sound a bit voodoo-ish, I agree ) But I think it is working for me. I have never had a regular period ever in my life and suddenly do. Something's working somewhere!

All the best for you RE appointment. I have heard they are really good at pinpointing the problem and working methodically towards a treatment plan. Please keep us updated - and meanwhile have fun! Can you believe all these women on belly belly are going through the same journey? Hooray to us!
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