Hi Jodz,

I'm so so sorry - for everything - and I do know how you feel. We are doing IVF because my husband had testicular cancer so his swimmers are very ordinary. ICSI overcame this but as this nightmare goes on more things just keep popping up. intitally my FS did very little testing on me as i am young(ish) - 29 - and my cycles were very regular and everything appeared to be ok - but after my loss each transfer is BFN. A quick check of my progesterone in my last TWW showed it was low. I've always spotted for a few days before AF but never thought anything of it - you dont have to answer have you always done this too? The prog pessaries held off AF for me in my last TWW though. As others have said though everyone is different. Hopefully your FS will give you some answers on Monday. As soon as I found out about my low progesterone I wondered if that's why i lost my baby? always looking for answers i suppose...

I've also heard that Prog pessaries inserted up your bum (sorry!) may be absorbed by the body better - and less mess apparently. Although I'm not keen to do this as I feel my poor body has been abused enough IYKWIM?

Hopefully all the awesome girls on here can share some success stories or give you some hope. I'm seeing my FS an Saturday - will share with you his thoughts ideas as it sounds like we are in a similar situation. Sorry for the essay.....wishing you all the very best.