Hi Andrea, I sometimes think denial works (it will happen, it will happen!) but then it only help for so long. How long have you actually been trying? I think the testing has to be done, for both of you. It's not nice to be told something is wrong but it helps to know why. I have endo & I know that helps with me, I know people who just don't know why & it totally rips them apart.

My vent is seeing 5 pg ladies on my way to work today. I catch the bus to the city for work & only have to walk a max of 10 minutes. How can I run into that many people in that time!!!!!!!

I've found it's not the pg announcements that get to me, it's the big bellies.