So maybe I should ask for a referal to a gyno. My gp used to be an ob-gyn so hopefully she will know someone good to help me get the ball rolling. $150 or even $250 for a gyno appt is probably all we can afford at one time hence wanting to go public, event though there is the long wait, we will just keep ttc naturally during that time. I am making an appointment to see her on Tuesday and I will go armed with this info. So helpful, thankyou so much for indulging me