Hi all,

It is great to hear I'm not alone. I hate to speak to people about TTC for number 2 as I am totally blessed and know it having DS but still .....

I haven't been on much since going back to work after the birth of my 1st DS. After hearing the wonderful news of my two good friends one with their 1st and the other with their second - it starts to become a bit harder to bear. With have been TTC for 14 months. It took 10 months for my DS, so I didn't expect it to be easy but now its just wearing on me. DH not any help, he says I should stop worrying about it - it will happen. Mum just says relax (i know its just not that easy). My SIL went though the whole secondary infertility, 2 angel babies and low sperm count, but IVF worked first time and now they are pround parents to 2 children 3 1/2 years apart. All the mothers group all either have just had their 2nd or are pregnant. My DS is only 20 months - but I would of liked a smaller gap- wishful thinking now.

I got a lot of pity from my friends with TTC for DS as they only took 2-3 months. So I haven't told many people about TTC#2, I don't need the extra pressure.