Hi
We too have embarked on the rollercoaster journey of trying to have another baby. Our DS is 21 months and is the love of our lives... we feel very blessed to have him. We did an IVF cycle back in 2008. We had a fresh transfer which was a bfn and DS was the result of the first FET. We had 2 embies in the freezer and we just went through and did a FET... we got the result on Wednesday and it was a bfn. We dont have any left in the freezer now as the other embie didn't survive the thaw. I had pretty high expectations that this FET would work (as it did the first time) so when we got told we weren't pregnant I was pretty devasted! I thought I was a lot more relaxed this time around as we already have a child so the sense of urgency wasn't as great. I was also doing acupuncture and taking herbs so I thought this would also contribute to a positive result. I am feeling a lot better about it all now and am gearing up to do another IVF cycle.
The cost has gone up a lot since we did the first cycle 2 years ago! We too will have to borrow money from family.
Coral73 - I too am scared that I may never be pregnant again or be able to give DS a sibling. It's also hard as everyone in my mothers group has just had their second babies and I find myself wishing that was me!
Best of luck with the journey everyone!
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I can’t imagine that that phone call would be any easier to receive regardless of already having been blessed with a little one (that is my biggest fear…. feeling that horrible disappointment again and wondering what ‘if’ all the time – 
!!)
…. 
and 
'ing that we are both lucky enough to be granted one more little miracle! 
to everyone else - may we all realise our dreams (no matter how may little miracles that may be!)
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