Hi

We have had five (difficult OHSS) failed icsi cycles now.

We are planning to do a donor egg cycle in Cape Town in April; have chosen a donor and started the process rolling, but I decided to do one last cycle with my own eggs just before Christmas (BFN)

In this last cycle my specialist transferred 2, day 3 embies. She also froze 3 day 3 embies (something that they refused to do before - they always insisted that they wait until they get to day five)

Have always produced around a dozen "great eggs"; most fertillised well but then would die or stop growing on day 4. I just get the feeling that y clinic is trying to get me to do another (frozen) cycle with them rather than have me go overseas....

What are the chances of the frozen embies actually defying the odds and making it? I am inclined to just leave them in the freezer for the time being and move onto donor eggs where there is a real chance of it being successful rather than going through all the anguish and disappointment yet again... and if the donor eggs fail - then use my frozen embies as a last ditch effort.

Anyone been in a similar situation???????